to be honest, i do not care about how i’m perceived because i decided so moving forward. people are going to place you where it feels the most comfortable with them in life and that’s none of my business. it’s a million different realities playing at once and i’m living in mine.
I feel like there’s a lot of ppl who’s never been in a REAL relationship, anybody can lay up, move in together, & pay some bills, but it’s ppl who really haven’t experienced genuine love, stayed down, going thru struggles, crying & praying together, times where you’re putting in 80% & they’re putting in 20% & vice versa, it’s easy to stick around for the good times, y’all be intertwining souls w ppl who have no knowledge of what it means to value who & what you have.
my life is nowhere near where i want it to be but i still just feel so grateful to be here right now. to show up most days trying my best to just make it happen for myself. the rough days make me appreciate the radiant ones. i pray i can give myself the life i feel i deserve.
being in a healthy relationship taught me that there’s no such thing as “this is who I am, take it or leave it”. when you genuinely love a person, you work on those toxic traits, u learn to communicate, u listen to each other’s feelings and encourage individuality.
Not to be cocky, but I'm really the full package. My head is on straight, priorities in check. I'm smart, independent, pretty & my heart is so genuine. Just a self-appreciation post because I get so busy trying to improve, that I forget to appreciate what I already am. 🦋🫶🏽
I love that feeling when you talk stuff out with someone and you both become aware that neither of you were wrong. You just saw the scenario differently. Talking really should be about seeing things from both perspectives, rather than the need to be right.
the amount of men that cheat on their girlfriends and casually flirt with women on a daily basis is insane. we are young, if you don’t want to be in relationship then don’t. if you want to explore then do that. but don’t do it at the expense of someone else.