This time, four months ago, It was a normal day. I was at my office getting a booklet made for each of my coworkers that would show their growth in their skills to help get them raises. 2 hours from then, I’d get a call that would shatter my world. My wife called, screaming
My lil sis just turned 21. We were having a convo & I said something along the lines of “they’re better than that” & she said, “no, ppl are what they show u. That’s your optimism.” I’m stunned because my optimism is a “positive” quality. But maybe it creates delusions too.
idk who needs to hear this but you can be a kind person and still express your frustration. you can be a kind person and still lose your patience. you can be a kind person and confront an issue assertively. it doesn’t take away from your kindness. let your feelings flow.