squid is a self hating fatphobic gay who only fucks guys who look like him hence why he is attracted to his ex squilliam. hes also into spongebob but feels weird about it bc sponge is way more fem than he'd usually go for
and if I say this is how we decenter marriage: by accepting family and care structures that are not built around romantic/hetero/sexual relationships and striving to enable legal rights + benefit sharing beyond marriage