Men,
Each time an ejaculation threatens to happen.
• Make a deep breath.
• Hold your breath.
• Release the breath slowly.
Rule:
- Don't moan. Moaning is for women.
- Don't be dramatic.
Command the tone, pace and mood of the moment.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
Monthly reminder:
Stay away from another man's wife,
— whether she is as beautiful as a zebra
— whether she is having marital issues
— whether she appears seductive
Keep off.
You will be killed, and we shall use you as an example.
#MasculinitySaturday
How a baby calms, smiles and falls asleep when it hears the mellifluous voice of its mother, is exactly how a woman falls in love when she hears the bold, commanding and supple voice of her man.
It is a top-down effect.
From man to woman to baby.
The hormone is OXYTOCIN.
Eating beyond 7 PM interferes with internal biological clock that modulates behaviour, sleep, mood, digestion and metabolism in humans.
This internal clock can also be refered to as a circadian rhythm.
#FoodFriday
People are not ignoring you.
They are not snobbish.
They are just carrying a heavy load and are going through a tough, stormy moment in their lives.
Give them some space.
Once their storm fades, they will reach out.
When you intentionally stand out, you become a target for hostility.
People silently dislike you not because you are arrogant but because you have refused to be submissive to their expectations.
They want you to:
• Stay humble but not too confident
• Be ambitious but not too successful
• Speak your mind, but not too boldly
• Blend in but don't shine too brightly
However, when you break these expectations, people become uneasy with you, they become hostile because you have opened their deep-rooted wounds.
Your authenticity irritates the person who spends his life pretending.
People don't hate who you are, they hate what they assume you represent in their heads.
They might decide that you are selfish, when you are just independent,
Or, you are manipulative when you are just observant,
Or, you are arrogant when you are just focused.
When people cannot read you, they project their fears onto you.
Men,
You can date, sleep and marry women older than you.
They are mature!
They have mature eggs, therefore healthy babies.
In fact, the older [45 and above], the better.
"Amerix hubamba mafala."
"Amerix excites fools."
YOU ARE A GENIUS.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
About alcohol,
If she is alcoholic, then she is not chaotic.
Avoid a woman who doesn't drink alcohol.
A drunk woman is sweet like wine.
She makes you fine.
She is mature and ready to shine.
Save her.
Marry her.
YOU ARE A GENIUS.
#MasculinitySaturday
Men,
If her past is chaotic and questionable,
Whom are you to judge?
Leave it to God.
She will change.
Save her, and Jesus will save you, too.
STIs are treatable, and HIV is manageable.
She is mature.
Marry her.
"Amerix ni fala."
YOU ARE A GENIUS
#MasculinitySaturday
When she starts calling you toxic masculinity, chauvinist, narcissist, then take it as a badge of honour.
You are doing the right thing, and she is unable to manipulate you to pander to her whims.
A woman shames a man (S.I.G.N) to disarm him to get what she wants.
STAND FIRM.