That man is saving the 50 to go be a full on provider to the woman whose respect he actually cares about.
There’s a level of their manhood that is humbled by doing 50/50. He will go out & seek a woman he can be proper masculine to (based on how they’re socialised to see manhood)
A lot of niggas had losers as dads too. That’s why they think that HeManWomanHater shit is normal when it’s not lol. Your pops was teaching you bullshit.
Actually your friends do tell you that they are rapists, dead beats, abusers etc. It’s in the language they use about women and children at the very least. Some even do it in front of you. If not that, they are outed as such. Yet sane men are friends with such