The human mind craves certainty even when it is false. People will choose a COMFORTABLE LIE over an uncomfortable truth because it protects the identity they have built.
If you don't spend enough time getting to know yourself, you'll end up absorbing everyone else's definition of you.
The people around you will define you by what's convenient for them, not what's true about you.
Do the inner work. Not for confidence, but for protection.
Know yourself deeply enough that their definition can't stick.
Twitter is the only place where well-articulated sentences still get misinterpreted. You can say you like pancakes, and someone will accuse you of hating waffles 😭
[Exclusive] #KimSoohyun Dated an ‘Idol’ Actress… “#KimSaeron’s 6-Year Relationship Claim is Fiction”
🔗 https://t.co/UuumIqpVYk
It has been confirmed that actor Kim Soohyun was in a relationship with an actress who debuted as an idol singer during his military service from 2017 to 2019. This contradicts claims made by the late Kim Saeron’s side, who alleged that Kim Soo-hyun dated her from late 2015 to July 2021, further exposing inconsistencies in their narrative.
According to Money Today’s comprehensive reporting on April 25, Kim Soohyun was in a relationship with Actress A for approximately three years, from around 2016 to 2019.
Kim Soohyun and Actress A reportedly built a close bond as senior and junior colleagues under the same agency at the time. It is known that Kim Soohyun ended the relationship with Actress A in the spring of 2019, about three months before his military discharge.
An industry insider familiar with the entertainment world stated, “Kim Soohyun’s relationship with Actress A was an open secret in the industry, making it impossible for him to have been dating Kim Saeron simultaneously. I recall there were several dating rumors about Kim Soohyun and Actress A. I heard he frequently sent letters to her during his military service.”
The insider added, “It seems Kim Soohyun’s side is refraining from mentioning Actress A to avoid putting her in a difficult position. I hope the truth comes to light soon.”
Another source confirmed, “While the exact start of their relationship is unclear, it’s certain they dated during his military service from 2017 to 2019. Kim Soohyun’s relationship with Kim Saeron lasted only one year, from 2019 to 2020.” They further noted, “I understand that Kim Saeron had feelings for Kim Soohyun for a long time and began dating him after she became an adult.”
Kim Saeron is known to have dated other men in 2016, 2018, and 2021, including singer Woodz and a former national athlete. She reportedly did not hide her relationship with Woodz, openly liking his social media posts and anonymously sending a coffee truck to the set of his music video shoot.
No Photos of ‘Minor’ Kim Saeron
Last month, Kim Saeron’s side, through the YouTube channel Garosero Research Institute, claimed that Kim Saeron dated Kim Soohyun from late 2015, when she was in her third year of middle school, until July 2021. Their primary evidence was a text message allegedly sent by Kim Saeron to an acquaintance.
In the message, Kim Saeron reportedly wrote, “(My relationship with Kim Soohyun) lasted from November 19, 2015, to July 7, 2021. I was 16, and he was 30. That’s how our six-year relationship ended.”
Kim Saeron also mentioned a photo allegedly taken with Kim Soohyun in “2016,” claiming, “(At Kim Soohyun’s urging), I signed with ‘Golden Medalist’ without any conditions and worked tirelessly on rookie casting and visual directing.”
However, her claims contain numerous factual errors. Kim Soohyun was 28, not 30, in 2015, and the “2016 photo” she referenced was found to have been taken after 2019. The agency name she mentioned, “Golden Medalist,” is incorrect; it is Gold Medalist. Additionally, there is no evidence that Kim Saeron performed any operational duties at Gold Medalist during her lifetime.
Other photos presented by Kim Saeron’s side as evidence of their relationship were similarly flawed, with some revealed to feature a man other than Kim Soohyun. A 2018 video of “dakbokkeumtang” (braised spicy chicken) allegedly filmed at Kim Soohyun’s home was confirmed to have included other people present at the time.
> Maybe karma isn’t about revenge. Maybe it’s about consequences. When you build something with lies, false promises, and deception, sooner or later you end up living with the damage you created even if it takes time to find its way back to you.
건강하면 됐다 역시 약속 잘 지키는 수맨🥰
'건강하게 잘 계십니다'🥹
어려움 속에서도 건강하게 이 위기를 극복하려고 노력하고 계시다
'힘든 시기이지만 그래도 차분하게 본인 내면에 집중하면서 극복하시려고 노력하고 계신다. 스트레스를 푸셔야 하는데, 사람들이 많은 상황은 피해야 하니 새벽 시간에 혼자서 조용히 산에 다녀오시곤 한다고 한다'
https://t.co/OF9OHx10vB
@Astraegonix@AsmaaElkhawaga KSR’s parents didn't even try to determine the exact time and cause of her death; they only cared about the date she was found 💰🤑— justice, my foot.
@WhyDoesItMtr@127lawyer Why are they policing who their fave can and can't follow? Get a life 😂. Yeah he controls everything— apparently more untouchable than the ex SK president according to x tribunal yet it still took a year for the police to conclude and release their investigation.
@WhyDoesItMtr@127lawyer What more do people want from him? Hasn't ksh been through enough already? His career was put on hold for an entire year due to accusations made by KSR’s fam that were later found to be unsubstantiated. Even after being cleared by the police, the harassment continues.
The core of the issue is not mere cybercrime and cyberwrecking. It's neither to steer the case towards social discourse. The core of the issue is how an evil family planned to destroy an innocent man’s life out of their sheer greed for money. Gaseyeon is merely a tool, a weapon, a hired assasin. The one who bears larger responsibility of crime is that family. They knew all along that Soo-hyun is innocent and still carried out their sinister plan.
If we are ignoring the family, we are ignoring the core of the issue. Until they are punished, Soo-hyun won't get justice. Our goal is, justice for Soo-hyun. Not justice for society. It's not Soo-hyun's responsibility to clean trash of a society that drove him to the edge and dehumanized him.
Lots of people say, “He’s lucky he’s a male actor; if he were a woman, she’d definitely be lambasted, blah blah blah.”
You’re wrong, and I don’t know why you always think like that. Because the fact is, the criticism directed at men is far more vicious and cruel than that directed at women.
Everyone always tears male actors with scandals to shreds more than they do female actresses.
Don’t believe me? Just look at the list below.
Not a single female actress is included, not even for minor issues, whereas controversies involving male actors are included. Yes, I know that even minor issues are still issues, but do you cover up for and protect women even when they’re in the wrong? Aren’t you being hypocritical?
stan twitter is so weird 😭 the same people who claim to hate a celebrity are always more invested in their personal life than their own. obsession at its finest.