@Ally_Sammarco You are a stunning example of the Dunning Kruger effect. Nice job of cherry picking anything you could find to create a narrative. I’m curious to know what you think of women who have 8 children with multiple fathers and don’t have jobs? Would you be as critical of them?
Don’t argue with a person’s feelings when they want to lead the way out of an airplane at 10,000 feet without a parachute. They will figure out they were misled by their feelings and become educated with the gravity of their mistake.