@the_wilderless i think being able to apologize when doing smt wrong (unnecessarily hurtful etc) is a great thing (esp. with the people you love)
but try not to apologize for smt that wasn't wrong (own it)
@nat_sharpe_ hmmm, in certain situations yes (like when parents are wayy overprotective) but it can also showcase good actions: why would your parents be pissed off at a good action? (if we suppose that they care and love you)
OFC i still believe that we're all made to create SMT, so ofc doing both work and enjoyment, and balancing them is rly important
i, for one, can only *really* enjoy after working
too much of each without balancing, is just too much like blergh
This may seem obvious, but I was for a long time, stressing about time, how I shouldn't waste my life (maybe secretly still am)
but having even a lazy life, that you're enjoying, is not a wasted life