a hardest pill to swallow is that people will hurt you. dehumanize you in so many ways and not feel badly about it. they won’t feel a thing actually. they’ll move on with their day, their week, their life, happy as ever but there you are, crushed. loss of appetite. loss of sleep.
This is sex education.
Sex education bukan ajar buat sex, dia ajar safe touch, what is sexual harassment, what is STD, what is the signs of puberty, what kind of touch yg considered inappropriate, lastttttt sekali baru safe sex, contraceptions for unavoidable.
I suka gila tengok orang bahagia bercinta. There are soooo many pleasures on earth and nothing comes close to being in love.
Like you’re floating, riding the clouds.
This is so important. Your dating/marriage life will be so much happier when you’ve a partner who isn’t emotionally dumb. Tak perlu you penat-penat cakap kalau terasa, sebab dia sendiri tahu what is hurtful & won’t do them. Sebelum buat/cakap apa-apa dia fikir perasaan you dulu.
Ignoring your girl's needs and still expecting a happy relationship, is like ignoring your plants that need water and still expecting a beautiful garden..!