@aessofhearts This is incredibly stigmatising and just not true. People with bpd are capable of respecting boundaries. We're not all carbon copies of one another. Some people have been to therapy
@Bjp968@jewelothenile@that_villainess@6ixxtar sorry my love, its just a third acc i didnt focus on anything in particular. i love my men but i also see the societal problems with men overwhelmingly, and i'm too traumatized to give every man a chance at this point
@jewelothenile@that_villainess@6ixxtar she has to remind them of normal human activities like a wife does her husband cause men seem to be too incompetent to even think about something alone and be able to not have to run every single thing by the woman in his life
i'll lose my mind if people keep talking out of their ass about trauma, trauma responses and the psychological process that is INHERENT to every and any human being
y'all are just plain uneducated, ignorant and seem to enjoy being violent, especially to victims
@wais6747125414 it literally is idk what to tell u. if u don't understand trauma responses that is not at all mine or that person's issue. having fantasies about rape does not mean they actually wanna be raped again
@hellscapedisco@GrahamNewnum@lostbossom@ma1ybe yeah and the objective world shows how disproportionally oppressed women are. i can not fucking "catch up" with all medical research that would be needed to help me, as a disabled woman. individuals will never change the picture if society doesnt change
@hellscapedisco@scoofusandruter@GrahamNewnum@lostbossom@ma1ybe its literally not possible to have a productive conversation with you as you lack way too much basic knowledge. well, basic for women of course. every single man today PROFITS off of the patriarchy and past, yes you carry fucking responsibility for ur privilege
the worst thing about being chronically suicidal is that you don't plan for the future because you are just planning to be dead. and then it's the future and you are not dead and you've just totally fucked up your life for no reason
You people have absolutely zero understanding of the human psyche. Failures of critical thought. At her lowest, she wanted change her current reality. Make her rapist into something he was not, some guy she simply had sex with. Erase the abuse and start over.
@hellscapedisco@GrahamNewnum@lostbossom@ma1ybe "moaning" a whole wide field of the most influential & important careers but sure its not doing anything lol
its shouldnt be new to you that we actually talk about & analyze social problems, not just "solve" one tiny issue ie a seatbelt?
@hellscapedisco@GrahamNewnum@lostbossom@ma1ybe maybe cause its wrong that its not made for us as well in the first place?? we are 50% of the population and as much as yall like to argue, it is a fact that most things in this world are made for men and men only. just as we only studied men as the "default human" forever