the worst part about gaining weight after already being uw is you will literally never ever feel skinny despite what anyone else tells you. because you’ve been thinner. #ihatebmi18#endingeverything
and i'm saying this with sooooo much love !! my mom's gone through so many absolutely horrible, heinous things in her life and, as a result, that has affected both me and my sibling in ways that we can't change or heal from. i love my mom so much but she shouldn't have had kids
gonna assume the silence is a yes !!
hot take: if you've gone through severe repeated trauma, you probably shouldn't have kids. especially if you feel like the people around you are expecting you to/pressuring you to and/or you feel like having kids is going to fix you.
hhhhh milkberi is saying i can eat more than my cal limit since i exercised and i know i'm going to do it but fuck dude i feel awful abt it like. no. i 1) don't deserve to and 2) need to just lock tf in and not eat as much + start properly working out in order to be skinny