For thousands of years, babies slept with their mothers. When they cried, they were attended to. Then two men came along: Dr. Holt and John B. Watson. They said babies should be trained. That babies had to fit the assembly line schedules of their parents. "Newborns must cry to expand their lungs," they claimed. "Simply let them cry it out." And that's how the "cry it out" sleep training method was born. Watson treated babies like experiments. "Never hug or kiss your child," he wrote. "Shake hands with them in the morning." After all, mothers needed rest, to attend to their husbands and households. Watson had four children. Three attempted suicide. One succeeded. And we still follow it today. Because once you convince a mother to ignore her baby's cries, you've broken something primal.
Anak lanang 12 tahun tiba-tiba tanya:
“Mom, would you rather be poor but happy or rich but sad?”
Ibune ngakak.
“Honestly? I’d rather be rich and sad"
"Why?"
Because sadness is solvable -- with access, with help, with mobility.
Money can buy therapy.
Money lets you travel, breathe, reset
Money brings you new networks, new perspectives, new families.
Money opens doors that sadness alone could never close.
Happiness tanpa resources itu potensial rapuh. Tapi resources tanpa happiness itu masalah yang bisa diselesaikan.
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Habis njawab begitu, ibune mikir. Minggu pagi kok "filosofis" bener ngobrolnya 😆
Semua tempat itu kodrat alaminya bebas asap rokok
Sama kyk smua tmpat selain toilet kodratnya ga boleh diberakin
Klo gada tulisan smoking area ya jgn ngerokok lah. Bukan jadi dibalik, klo gaada tulisan dilarang berarti boleh.
Kalo pola pikirnya begitu, dunia isinya berak semua
This guy graduated from Harvard to be trade minister in this shitty country, then he was chosen to be Jokowi's advisor at debat pilpres. Yet he's still betrayed. If I was him, I would've pulled a villain move.