A big lesson I learned about love later in life is that we just can’t make a relationship work with someone who doesn’t have the capacity to self-reflect and understand what patterns they need to work on in order to make their relationship loving and peaceful.
People lack accountability, then say, 'You could've talked to me. No, I couldn't. You don't listen. You deflect. You twist everything into an attack and then play victim. Conversations with you aren't healing, they're exhausting. honestly, I don't owe my peace to someone who only shows up to argue not to understand.
A man attempted to jump into the sea at night after reportedly catching his wife cheating during a live video call.
He almost took his own life, but locals nearby quickly intervened and saved him. Instead of sympathy, he was scolded, b£aten and questioned about why he wanted to end his life because of a woman.
Throughout the incident, he remained silent and was seen crying while still on the video call with his wife.
Your partner coming to you about something you’ve done wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a healthy sign they value the relationship and want to make it work – it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's commitment. That's love.
Dare Lawal a 35-year-old man from Ogun State, is married with two children and a vulcanizer/motorcycle rider. On the 2nd day of May 2024, Dare was on his way to his friend's house along Eleweran in Abeokuta to carry his motorcycle when he was raided by some policemen and taken to the police station.