This is truly insidious/ harmful way to bring African spirituality on a platform that cannot even acknowledge colourism. Nneka is sick for going along with this. #RHOP
how to treat/honor a goddess aka women.
- flowers
- plants
- quality time
- investing in beauty
- nails, hair, toes, clothes
- cash money
- food, fruit, liquor.
- candies and sweet things
- take her nature
- nourish her dreams
- be consistent/ daily rituals
“Soooo you mean to tell me that someone down your ancestry line survived being chained to other human bodies for several months in the bottom of a disease-infested ship during the Middle Passage, lost their language, customs and traditions, picked up the English language as best they could while working free of charge from sunup to sundown as they watched babies sold from out of their arms and women raped by ruthless slave owners.
Took names with no last names, no birth certificates, no heritage of any kind, braved the Underground Railroad, survived the Civil War to enter into sharecropping... Learned to read and write out of sheer will and determination, faced the burning crosses of the KKK, everted their eyes at the black bodies swinging from ropes hung on trees... Fought in World Wars as soldiers to return to America as boys, marched in Birmingham, hosed in Selma, jailed in Wilmington, assassinated in Memphis, segregated in the South, ghettoed in the North, ignored in history books, stereotyped in Hollywood... and in spite of it all someone in your family line endured every era to make sure you would get here and you receive one rejection, face one obstacle, lose one friend, get overlooked, and you want to quit? How dare you entertain the very thought of quitting. People, you will never know survived from generation to generation so you could succeed. Don’t you dare let them down!
Give this to your young people who don’t know their history and want to get weak!
It is NOT in our DNA to quit!”
i don’t wanna regret who i have a baby by. that’s prolly one of my biggest fears cause ppl switch up everyday. me & my partner def gotta be locked in, im not een finna play like that.