Btw, your soulmate won’t leave you confused about where you stand. They’ll be kind to you, invest in you, show up consistently, and make it obvious that they genuinely want you in their life. Love shouldn’t feel like a guessing game.
Don’t care for nonchalance. Point me to the niggas that love hard. The yearners. The poets. The niggas that send long paragraphs and want a long paragraph back. The triple texters. The gifters. Point me to the niggas that love love and ain’t scared to show it.
I don’t understand intentionally being nonchalant with somebody you actually care about 😭 like congratulations??? You successfully made the person you like think you don’t give a fuck. Now what?
If you want to maintain healthy relationships in your life you have to learn how to reconcile the right way. When you mistreat or mishandle someone that you love and care about, apologize to them AND address the issue. Waiting for time to pass hoping it will get better is
I think one of the most important qualities you need in a partner, is a partner who is considerate. Someone who can look at things from your point of view, who considers how you're feeling when things are rough, someone who creates a space for you to feel safe and vice versa.
I’m starting to understand why people protect their evenings so much. After spending all day being available to everyone, it's nice to have a few hours that belong only to you.