GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD
Allow yourself to be cringe. Talk to people. Have fun. Share your interests. Move your body. Socialize more. Learn to dance. Feel the music. Partymaxxing. Make memories. Laugh out loud. All sweaty. Tears of joy. Randomly remembering hilarious situations.
When you spend so much time in your head, not only does it become hard for you to interact with others, but it also prevents you from living fully.
Allow yourself to just exist. Just be.
Enjoy the present moment.
the real reason you’re tired all the time: it’s not your workload. it’s your open loops. the text you haven’t answered. the apology you owe. the decision you’re avoiding. the conversation you keep postponing. these run in the background of your mind all day, draining your battery. close your loops. watch your energy return. mental clutter is more exhausting than physical work ever will be.
SIGNS OF A LOSER
> I will start tomorrow
> I don't have time
> It's not my fault
> I can't do it
> It's not fair
> I am too tired
> It's not easy
> Easy for you to say
> Says he/she so lucky
> I’ll wait for the right time
> I don’t know where to start
> No one supports me
> I tried once, it didn’t work
> I’m not good enough
You're a man.
Get out of your fucking room.
Pack your laptop and go to a coffee shop. A hotel. Rent a bnb for the weekend. Go to a different city.
Go ANYWHERE, but your room
After 37 years of age as a man, I’ve finally come to realize that the only cure to depression is just leaving the house at every single possible opportunity no matter how badly you don’t want to.
Forgive your old self. You've changed. You know things now that you didn't know then. You see patterns you couldn't see before. You understand now why you made the choices you made. Stop judging your past with the wisdom of your present. Maybe you were surviving. Learning. Growing in the only way you knew how. Be grateful it happened. Because without those mistakes, heartbreaks, wrong choices... you wouldn't be the person reading this today.
YOU STILL HAVE SIX MONTHS TO CHANGE
You said it will be your year. Don’t break the promise. July is already here. Summer can become your breakthrough. Stop waiting. 2026 is your biggest chance. One year can change everything. Wake up with intention. Prove yourself that you can. Generational run. Now or never. Don’t lose this opportunity. All in.
It’s important to remind yourself sometimes about the illusion of time, but opportunities constantly come and go.
The saying “You’re always at the right place at the right time” is true, but to speed up the process, you have to choose the path of evolution.
Change will come with suffering.
But you must endure it.
The suffering is a symptom of doing something meaningful. It teaches life lessons that cannot be taught, only felt.
This will feel like a Dark Night of the Soul, where at moments you’ll doubt why you even started, but after everything is done - you’ll agree it was worth it.
DON’T WASTE YOUR 20S
Become exceptional. Create something meaningful. Start a business. Network. Sculpt your body. Healthmaxx. Read useful books. Uplift your spirit. Support the people around you. Bring value to the world. Help those in need. Travel. Play sports. Try different things. Seek novelty. Make a positive impact. Say no to doomscrolling. Live life with purpose. Embrace the adventure.
Don’t be like those people who constantly complain about wasting their time doing nothing.
“Time flies.”
False.
Cut the noise. Get rid of distractions.
You’ll notice how much time you’ve been wasting on things that deep down, don’t matter to you.
Suddenly, your days become longer.
You remember what you ate for breakfast.
“It’s that damn phone!” - every elder
And they were SO right.
Even if you’re no longer in your 20s, you have an advantage that most young people don’t have:
End of an Era of gaming ✊🏽❤️
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Salute to all the physical gamers out there, it’s gotta suck that Sony is doing this
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I honestly though Sony would go at least another gen of support but here we are
PS1 PS2 PS3 PS4 PS5
YOU MUST BECOME MORE CONFIDENT
Be egoistical. Dress well. Take care of your body. Auramaxx. Make others feel your presence. Insecurities are in your head. Love yourself first. Don’t be a people pleaser. You’re the priority. Play big. Overthinking drains your energy. Nothing is that serious. Opinions are just opinions. They don’t matter.
From shy → confident.
From insecure → empowered.
From scared → brave.
When you know yourself and work on yourself, nobody can make you feel small.
Look at people you admire.
Do you think they care what others think of them? You think they are not confident in themselves?
The answer is obvious.
The secret to everything is confidence.
Every door you thought was closed, you’ll realize was open the whole time. You were just afraid to step in because of the unknown, the darkness there.
But you forgot that you were the bright light all along, meant to shine.
turns out, reading a lot, exercising, loving people without expecting anything back, protecting your alone time, focusing only on improving yourself, and sometimes staying out late with friends who make you laugh until it hurts is a pretty good way to live.
As a man, stop being a loser. Quit mindless scrolling. Quit watching porn. Get up early. Move your body. get in the sun. Go for a walk. Sit in silence. Wear new clothes. Go out. have fun. Meet new people. Talk to cute girls. Play sports. Build a business. Read books. Watch sunset. Figure out what you want to do.
heard a girl say that when she feels stuck, she imagines herself at 85yrs old & gets a chance to come back to her younger body for a day. suddenly, everything feels like magic again. the walk, the coffee, the music, the sunlight. live like today is the miracle it actually is!!!
As a man,
Do this to fix your health;
-Eat 3–4 eggs every morning
-Eat 1 avocado daily
-Eat bananas and fresh fruits during the day
-Eat spinach or green vegetables regularly
-Eat salmon or fatty fish twice a week
-Eat a handful of pumpkin seeds and nuts daily
-Use olive oil instead of processed oils
-Drink 2–3 liters of water every day
-Sleep 7–8 hours every night
-Exercise 3–4 times a week
-Do squats, walking, or running for blood circulation
-Get 15–30 minutes of sunlight daily
-Avoid smoking, too much alcohol, and constant junk food
Peak male living;
- Go on adventures
- Socialise more
- Ignore shit and shitty people
- Dressing like James Bond
- Have double espresso any time
- More Caffeine, creatine, taurine, magnesium
- High-T movies zero romantic slop
- high-energy music no sad shit
- Intuition like birds of prey
- God mode all day
- Lots of masculine hobbies
- Having fun to the max
- Being jacked
- Staying spontaneous
- BBQ evenings and coffee morning
- Working on shit you love
- Staying authentic
- Giving zero fucks
- Reading novels
- Talking to girls
- Doing dangerous shit
- Staying in flow state
- Talking to everyone
- Zero hate
What else?
Life is genuinely short in a way you don't feel until you're watching it happen. the summers get faster. the years blur. the people you thought would always be around start disappearing. stop saving your energy for a later that is not guaranteed. go spend it on something real right now.
YOUR TIME IS LIMITED
Be fast. Other people’s opinions don’t matter. Focus on your purpose. Fulfill it. Accelerate. Every day can be your last. Don’t wait for others. They’re always late. Time > money. Protect your energy above everything else. Wake up early. Get things done. Alone. No need for support. You’re capable of doing everything by yourself.
You’re constantly competing with yourself. Either you do what you know needs to be done, or you find excuses.
Remember the times when you were procrastinating, but still had to finish something by the next day.
It could have been anything:
a major presentation at work, preparing for an exam, or keeping a promise to someone.
You pulled an all-nighter and still got everything done on time.
So why not start earlier?
It proves that in extreme situations, you don’t need others to tell you what to do or when to do it.
Implement that mindset every day.
See how high and far you will go.