Adigun Fatima Ifedolapo

Muslimah // Chemist // Educationist // Graphics Designer // Lover of Food and Children //

[Heisjayy 𝕏 @Jayysein]

Account Balance 9k "Your bill is 13k"

[Adigun Fatima Ifedolapo @fateemah27]

@temilight_ Congratulations babe

[The Instigator @Am_Blujay]

DSTV your days are numbered

[Emmanuel Echeta @PenTitan]

Not so long ago, a guy here tweeted that "the world isn't fair to broke men." He didn't make any comparisons; just vented his possible frustrations.

Women ratioed him in the tens of thousands, that the world was unfair to all kinds of women.

I felt bad.

[Innoventor @alagbesola]

@lollypeezle

[HANAH📖 @TrentahRaihanah]

I find this misleading to young girls.

I would agree with you in your submission (as quoted) on one condition, a woman has not got into marriage early and has not been fucking around.

But if it is anything else, I will disagree with you over these points.

1. I swear to my Allah, even if you prepare yourself on every aspect of marriage, read every book about marriage, be told every advice on marriage, you can never be ready for a successful marriage.

Just prepare yourself and go in for it. Manoeuvre when in.

The more hurdles you overcome the stronger your marriage gets. When a good moment comes, enjoy it fully. When a bad one comes, sail through the storm.

That is how you get celebrating anniversaries in marriage.

When anyone ever tells you "I have been happily married for 25 years" and another one tells you "I have been married or 25 years"

The latter has more truth and reality than the former.

Every thing worth taking on has its challenges that are served on the job subjectively. Starting with the life we are living.

2.
Who tells you people that you can't build a life in marriage? You can't build a carrier in marriage? You can't be this or that in marriage.

I find it very misleading to tell young girls to first enjoy life and build themselves and then settle in marriage. That is misleading and brings me to the 3rd point.

There is nothing that will help a woman keep her chastity, modesty and dignity of a woman like marriage.

Be aware of yourself, and look for a man who fits you. Do that early enough when your bargaining power is still high.

Can a young girl in marriage really post naked videos on tiktok? No. She can't.

Instead our young girls are attention seekers. Is that what you people want for society?

3.
A woman has prime years.

Time has never been fair to a woman. There is a certain age a woman goes past and then her value starts a downward spiral.

Look at the people you admire, The late Queen Elizabeth, got married at 21 in 1947 and had her first child in 1949.

The earlier a woman gets in marriage the better she has to offer herself and the world.

Time has never been fair to a woman. The longer she waits to get married, the more desperate she gets and the more she degenerates. Temptations dance at the finger tips of a woman.

A woman has a high bargaining power to a man she wants when younger. A man has a higher bargaining power on a woman he wants when older.

Let's stop painting marriage as this thing hard to be in or whatsover. A woman can still be anything she wants to be coming from marriage.

What is the importance of fucking around, being a bed to bed midfielder in the name of enjoying life?

What kind of life are you waiting to enjoy as a woman that you can't enjoy in marriage?

Use your prime years and look for a great man. Those are the years you have higher bargaining power.

But society has indocrinated young girls that to first enjoy life and then settle. Marriage is not a settling scheme.

Be honest, a woman of 22 looking for a man to get married to and a woman of 30 looking for a man to get married to, whom do you think will easily be put off the market easier or have a higher price?

Early 20s is the time a woman should be looking for a man to get married and build her life in marriage. It is very possible.

Only a man can wait for marriage.

A woman has to consider marriage a priority if she ever thinks of marriage in her life.

Let's stop misleading young girls.

[Pharaoh👳🏾‍♂️👑 @MrMekzy_]

How did he disrespect his mum? I just finished watching this video and i don’t see anything wrong with what he said. As a matter of fact, he’s right or is there another video?

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

Leaving your house & returning back safely is such an underrated blessing.

[Pharaoh👳🏾‍♂️👑 @MrMekzy_]

Seeing a child get really excited to see you is one of the best feelings ever.

[Adigun Fatima Ifedolapo @fateemah27]

@aproko_doctor Happy birthday doctor

[OriginalBabyGirl @chinasa_anukam]

The fact that you love me doesn’t mean I feel loved by you.

[Troy 🪫🔋 @mccharles_las]

@Mbahdeyforyou

[Ruddy @Rudegyale1]

@Mbahdeyforyou 😂😂😂 me rn

[ⓢⓗⓔⓓⓓⓨ ⓚⓘⓓ™⛓️🗿 @sheddykid]

@Mbahdeyforyou This😂😂

[Eric @amerix]

I don't know who wants to hear this,

But, if things are bad, they're temporary.

If you are struggling, it's temporary.

The pain you are experiencing is temporary.

It is a season, it will pass.

No suffering lasts forever.

Hang in there, keep looking up!

#BetterTogether

[Adigun Fatima Ifedolapo @fateemah27]

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[kіra @kirasworlds]

this was unprovoked

[𝐌𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐊 @TheMahleek]

Some of you are still single because Ooni of Ife has married your future wife💀

[Haleemah Abubakar @Halima_Fajr]

If posting Islamic reminders is only for perfect people who don't commit sins, una no go see reminders again o

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[Design Chief Priest @dnaijatechguy]

Name your sections properly so your users can understand what they’re looking at easily