Matt Federoff

Catholic, Convert, Husband, Father of 11, Teacher, EMT, Contractor, Musician, Dating/Marriage Coach & Matchmaker "Beauty will save the world" - JPII

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@sadgirlyboss @holisticbaddie Pro tip. Nice Catholic Girl + F word = not attractive. The guys you’re looking for aren’t into it.

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@SaysSimulation Men are interested in things, women are interested in people. In the Bible, when Adam opened his eyes, he saw the physical world. When Eve opened her eyes, she saw Adam. So this goes way back to the beginning. We need both perspectives, in balance.

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@jakozloski @CodyZervas I would LOVE to play with this. Where do I start?

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@jennybea_101 @beyondwaiting Just curious. From what vantage point of experience are you drawing these inferences from?

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@FindURForte @drjoshcsimmons @beyondwaiting "The research & views have shifted quite a bit since then." - The kids don't seem to be turning out better. Just saying.

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@jennybea_101 @beyondwaiting I've had 11 toddlers, and yes, it does.

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@drjoshcsimmons @beyondwaiting In that crowd are 3 college graduates, one electrician, one HS honors student, and two younger ones still cooking. Overall in my 11 children I have 6 college graduates, 5 marriages, 3 grandchildren (so far), and zero substance abusers. But hey, you’re the “Dr”.

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@Chad954468679 @beyondwaiting You clearly have never parented multiple toddlers.

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@DocwelGaming @beyondwaiting You clearly have never parented multiple toddlers.

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@ZeldaTetraSheik @beyondwaiting I’m sorry that you had a negative experience, and I don’t doubt that experience. But the child may not always be in my home, and once there are multiple toddlers, all bets are off. A child not being dead is better.

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@sarahdistortion @beyondwaiting Whatever, it keeps him alive. Being alive is better than not being alive.

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@Gingie_Em @beyondwaiting Because he then connects doing a certain activity to a swift and certain consequence, before he has the cognitive ability to understand that activity can kill him. And he’s doing those things because he’s a toddler. That’s what they do.

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@eplurubusnullus @beyondwaiting So if you had died of electrocution, it would be better that your dad didn’t spank you? I don’t agree with your logic.

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@storkstrangler @beyondwaiting No, it keeps them alive. Being alive is better than not being alive.

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@thedudeabidez07 @beyondwaiting Here I am with seven of my eight caveman. Aren’t they awesome?

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@JekPorkinsTrthr @beyondwaiting You are so right, I failed at parenting. Here I am with seven of my eight sons that I failed to raise. Oh the tragedy.

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@drjoshcsimmons @beyondwaiting Dude, you are so right. I have so failed that parenting. Here I am with seven of the eight sons that I failed with.

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@eyal_kenigsvain @beyondwaiting Two boys? Try eight boys. Then you can compare notes with me.

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@MBurtwrites @beyondwaiting It teaches them not to do the thing that can kill them, before they understand how it can kill them. That’s enough for that stage in life.

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@Gingie_Em @rebecca09478433 @beyondwaiting There’s more than just one, and you do turn your back occasionally, as much as you don’t mean to.