While I agree cheating is high on the list of what I would never accept, having an emotionally avoidant person in your life is more exhausting. I’m not about to keep talking for shit. I leave, he follows. I say I’m done, he comes looking for me. It’s a draining cat/mouse game.
@AlbarnDante@dearvenusluv@tellherall_@pandemoniminium i think ur take is super reductive. if every individual authors psyche is a result of biopsychosocial factors then the contents of any book (as well as when/where its being written) cannot be removed from its sociopolitical context without losing essential meaning.
i am beginning to be uncomfortable with the booktok girlies because do u know what torture feels like? do u know abuse doesnt feel good? please go back to spanking and other stuff that has an actual balance between pain and pleasure, or read memoirs to flick the bean. damn...
Lovebombing works on me because deep down I believe desire should produce a temporary loss of dignity. Why wouldn’t you be reckless and ambitious in pursuit of your love?
see the thing is, Stella Lefty thought she woke up in a Yesterday-esque universe where she was the only one who remembered Noah Kahan but it turns out she didn’t
@pandemoniminium i engage in maochism too and i think thats why my opinion is strong. i see a difference between bdsm acts established on trust/consent and sexual thrill from domestic violence dynamics. i dont think the latter should be encouraged in sex positive spaces.
i will never fall for the idea that talking about the harm caused by ssris and other psych meds is some kind of maha conspiracy. and in this discussion i will always prioritize the people who have been seriously harmed by those drugs and oftentimes were forced onto them