@na3aretc just move out. they will get over it, they’re adults. unfortunately their sadness is not more important than your life and independence. show them you can be independent and they’ll back off. i moved out at 19 and my relationship with my mom has never been better. 🤍🤍
@doxie_gay our parents had horrible lives, sacrificed a lot for us to live better lives, and they have major anxiety about letting us be independent. you can either be consumed by guilt or just bite the bullet and move out. my relationship with my mom got so much better since i moved out.
I wrote down exactly who I want to be and what I want my life to look like. then I asked what does he do. how does he start his day. what does he eat. when does he sleep. how does he handle the hard conversations. what does his work look like. I wrote all of it down. then I just started doing it. you don't have to feel like him first. you act like him until you are him.
The astro community will call Cancer placements everything but what they actually are which is inconsistent. I don’t even say that to be slanderous. The label of evil is almost too easy, the word you’re looking for is inconsistent. The moon is inconsistent
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
you’ll get rejected and dumped and fired and you’ll fail at things you were sure about, that’s just the cost of being alive. the question isn’t whether it’ll happen but how quickly you can get yourself back to swinging at the next opportunity. every day you spend hostage to what already happened is a day you’re not creating what’s next. reset fast.
Stop glorifying urgency. Not every dream needs to be chased in panic. Some of what is meant for you will require patience, rhythm, and a nervous system that finally feels safe enough to receive it.
actually your community IS coming to save you, people are going to show up for you, love is going to find you, strangers are going to be like angels, the world conspires for your highest good
i have to treat my body better, not to attract a lover or an audience, but because my body is a conduit for the entire life experience. this body is a container for all possible consciousness. it is my job to live a life that this enhanced vessel can sustain with ease and joy .