Deep love is the kind that never fades because the connection is based on a deep spiritual level. Ordinary love fades because the connection is either physical, intellectual or trauma based; it does not defy space and time and it requires significant energy to maintain.
Today I present to you, my incredibly extra carrot cake: carrot + walnut cakes layered with brown butter and vanilla bean cream cheese frosting and salted caramel, decorated with candied walnuts and cake crumbs :)
If someone’s death is unsolved you ask what happened. Japan typically does not have violent crime. You do not need to worry about meth addicts stabbing you for drug money on a hike. But it could be a bear, a stroke, suicide, snake bite, lightning strike, disorientation, etc. It is unusual for a foreigner to die outside Kyoto. But just saying “nature is dangerous” is a very shallow explanation.
They all operate at the same frequency (really bad one) so they subconsciously recognize eachother and know that there is no “supply” to garner. And you’re useless to a narcissist if you’re not supply.
Usually, people who attack you are infested with parasites. So never take it personally those little buggers are clever. They've hijacked the vessel, and the person doesn't even know it
Parasites are ancient, and what I mean is that it’s like a partial hijacking. The parasite amplifies existing negative tendencies. A person who is 10% jealous becomes 90% jealous. A person who is 5% rageful becomes 80% rageful. The host still thinks the feelings are theirs because the parasite works through their own unhealed wounds
And if they’re a pork eater, it’s even worse. So, like I said, don’t take it personally. These people will never feel normal because they’re hijacked and don’t even know it
Never confuse being easy to deal with for being respected. Some people call you mature because you cost them nothing. You absorb the delay, the disrespect, the excuses, the mixed signals, and they praise your patience. Many saints are just unpaid servants with good manners.
Men who have a lot of unhealed trauma and a fractured sense of self will outsource their ego to a strong woman willing to play that role which is more mother not lover. This invites parasitic manipulation. In reality she is his surrogate ego and he confuses that enmeshment for love. Real love is a sovereign bond between two emotionally and spiritually healthy autonomous individuals who are attuned to each other’s hearts and wellbeing.
The love of your life will never chip away at your soul, keep you small and dependent upon them. Codependency kills the spirit. Love amplifies your soul and encourages your healthiest highest self.