I'm very thankful for the patience and kindness of my clients and friends in this time. 2024 is shaping up to be a tough year for me, but I've got so much support. 💚💚
Before anyone is concerned: baby and I are safe and healthy, it's not that kind of issue. I have spent several weeks now figuring out my plan for moving forward, and I'm still not entirely sure what I want.
I'm hoping to start work again part time by mid-year. ⬇️
This isn't something I wanted or saw for my future when I planned my baby, but it is something that might become a reality. As I am the aggrieved party, mostly the decision on whether to stay and work on things or leave rests with me. It's not an easy one. ⬇️
Happy 2024, everyone 💚
A small update.
I thought I might be back working by now, but unfortunately, some things have come up. I have had a significant rupture in my personal life, which may leave me as a single parent, making work difficult. ⬇️
Hello all, baby has arrived!
I haven't had a chance to update things and take down my ads, but for the interim, I won't be available to see folks!
FAQ:
💚 I'm healthy! It was an uncomplicated and injury free birth.
💚 Baby is healthy! Minor niggles but otherwise fine.
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💚 No, I won't share details with you, bc this family stuff is pretty private. I know you understand!
❓️I don't know when I will be able to come back to work just yet.
❓️When I do, I don't know if lactation fetish stuff will be on the table. It's a weirdly personal thing!
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@overlordofdord@DisruptiveDebra@BenjaminGJW With your comprehension ability, I don't feel like you should be talking about advanced degrees at all. Ever.
No one is claiming a masters is the same level of academic achievement as a PhD. You, however, are claiming it's "boring" to have an MSN and downplaying it.
Jog on.
@overlordofdord@DisruptiveDebra@BenjaminGJW Well I'm really glad you think you're the arbiter of what is interesting and what isn't, and that you also feel the irrepressible need to diminish someone's achievements by telling them your opinion on what is interesting. You seem like a really supportive and fun person.
@meet_circe@CallieVane The stigma of being a street based worker is pretty different to being someone high end, regardless of legality. Unfortunately, even when legal or decriminalised, stigma doesn't just go away 😞
There is a priv to being fully out, but OOP is just a bitter and nasty person.
@ClaudiohneAudi@ask_aubry "4th month" is from 13 weeks onwards to 18 weeks, just FYI. It also depends on how your pregnancy was dated (last menstrual period vs dating scan).
@MonicaJewinsky@prettycritical PrEP is useless for everything except HIV, which is already becoming more and more rare due to the huge amount of work put in by HIV, LGBTQIA+ and sex work NFPs & their related communities.
Chlamydia. Gonorrhoea. Trichomoniasis. HPV (which causes CANCER). Babies.
Wear a condom.
@MissLaraBelle There's only one group here practising what Jesus taught, and unsurprisingly it isn't the religious folks. As per usual.
I'm glad you got him into the shade 💚 What a heart-wrenching and infuriating experience!!
It's fine to prefer to see a female gynae, but bad experiences can be given by both. Nice thread on why male OBGYNs chose their speciality:
https://t.co/ynYJgDWWqu
@roywut1@ivysociete The thing about babies is that only 4% of them arrive in their due date. So since I've just hit week 36, you can see you're probably running out of time and should book in soon!