There is a huge difference, when Higuain was getting abused, what did messi do?
Here is what Higuain himself said:
Gonzalo Higuain: "After the match, everyone in the locker room turned cold toward me and no one spoke.
Only Messi came over to me, hugged me, and said, 'No problem, this is football. We made it to the final and gave it our all.'
Later, the coach at the time told me not to come back to the national team, but once again Messi stepped in and talked to the coach. 'This isn't his fault. In football, we win and lose together. No one is perfect, he said. He changed the coach's decision.
That's how I got called back to the national team. If it weren't for Messi, I'd still be tormented by guilt to this day."
Many people start their first EMI Or take their first loan for a wedding.
Strange, right?
A marriage something that’s supposed to mark the beginning of a new life has quietly turned into one of the biggest financial burdens for many families.
What used to be a simple, meaningful ritual is now a full scale production. Lavish venues, designer outfits, cinematic pre-wedding shoots, curated décor, choreographed dances it’s no longer about the union of two people, but about putting on a show. And more often than not, that show is funded by loans, EMIs, and years of financial stress.
The pressure doesn’t come out of nowhere. It’s built slowly through social media, relatives’ expectations, comparisons, and the constant need to “match standards.” People aren’t just planning weddings anymore; they’re trying to outperform others. And in that race, logic takes a backseat.
For the middle class especially, this becomes a trap. Savings are drained, debts are taken, and all for a few days of celebration that society will forget in a week but the EMI will stay for years.
When did marriage stop being about commitment and start becoming a performance?
A wedding should celebrate love, not showcase status. It should bring people together, not push families into debt. Simpler celebrations don’t make the bond any less meaningful they just make the start of married life a lot more stable.
Maybe it’s time we rethink what really matters: the life after the wedding, not just the wedding itself.