I will always be an LGB ally.
But the T -especially the trans-identifying men, with their violence, entitlement, perversions, mockery, misogyny, harassment, and invasions-
ruined it all.
What makes female on female hatred so insidious is that it comes wrapped in concern.
When men troll: it's “you’re ugly,” “you’re a whore,” “you’re ran through.” It’s crude, but transparent.
When women come for other women, it's cloaked in moral language. “What if a young girl saw this and skipped dinner?”
“You’re promoting dangerous beauty standards.”
This transforms cruelty into a public service. They’re not bullying you: but protecting vulnerable people. The harassment becomes righteous, and because it’s framed as concern for others, it’s socially acceptable.
Behind the moral language, the attacks are identical to any other form of harassment.