The banger boy that wrote 30 year old when she said 40 year old knows what he’s doing.
She’s well aware of her age, but many people act younger roles in Nollywood.
Intentionally misunderstanding someone and running with a wrong narrative is one of the first signs of insanity.
“I will be 56 years old by October but I can still play the role of a 30-year-old easily.
I only eat one good meal a day to maintain proper health.”
— Shaffy Bello
Guys, if you have a successful marriage, it is grace given to you by God o. It’s not because you know how to do it. You can only do your part to be good. You can’t legislate for the other party. Just do your best to be a good guy and pray for grace.
I am Ezemmuo. I know things.
In developed climes, even animals cannot be treated like that, otherwise, jail calleth… but in this Giant of Africa, it’s understandable because he’s her dad. Lunatics.
This is why Baye’s father will keep getting away with assault even when his wife and her sister already escaped and spoke about his assault.
We saw that man smash her face on live with those small boys begging for not to be killed but the man is pushing she was on hard drugs to justify beating her to that point
We are not getting out of the trenches anytime soon. The average Nigerian man’s mindset stinks. Imagine justifying beating up a 25 year old like an animal. A full fledged adult. SMH
I don’t dislike eloquent speakers but I completely agree. Vusi was being insincere and evasive about the real issues. I just don’t have the strength to sew a thread.
Turns out the story of the year was just...made up. and it gets worse.
- John Doe is Chirayu Rana, 35, now a principal at Bregal Sagemount. he left JPMorgan and went straight to private equity.
- The whole "threaten his bonus" premise collapsed. Hajdini reported to a completely different managing director than Rana. she had no say over his compensation.
- JPMorgan pulled phone records, reviewed emails, interviewed the full team. found nothing. Rana even refused to participate in his own investigation.
- A colleague described Rana as "socially awkward" but someone who "met the requirements" to stay at the bank.
- Before any lawsuit, he tried to negotiate a payout in the "millions" to leave the bank quietly. they didn't bite.
- He filed court filing, then his lawyers retracted it for "corrections" and deleted it. But the Daily Mail already ran the whole thing and the rest twitter did its thing.
so he tried to get paid, didn't, then filed a now-retracted complaint against someone who couldn't touch his bonus. wild.
feel terrible for her and her family.
@bolanleolukanni The yahoo boys dragging was one of the reasons I left the country. Def can’t share the country with people with dark minds and zero morals.
As Londoners come together to celebrate the start of the Islamic holy month of Ramadan, our capital shines bright as a beacon of hope and diversity.
From my family to yours: Ramadan Mubarak.
I will say this again, if you’re not settled , it’s perfectly okay to intentionally date people with papers. No allow anybody whine you…. Chase them passport boys and girls
Says the person that didn’t get pregnant nor deal with pregnancy or postpartum inconveniences.
Let women feel what they feel - aloud - if they want to. You have not walked in their shoes.
I saw a tweet where someone said they regret being a parent, and I laughed. Not because life with children is easy, but because that kind of regret can only come from measuring parenthood with the wrong tools.
Parenthood is not a convenience. It is not a lifestyle upgrade. It is not something you evaluate with free time, sleep, or disposable income. It is purpose in its rawest form.
Being a parent matters because it forces you out of yourself. For the first time, your decisions are no longer centered on comfort, ego, or speed, but on legacy. You begin to think in decades instead of moments. You learn patience not as a concept but as a daily discipline. You understand sacrifice not as loss, but as love made practical.
Children humble you. They expose your flaws and invite you to become better than you were yesterday. They teach you responsibility without applause and love without conditions. In raising them, you confront your own upbringing, heal old wounds, and choose what ends with you.
Parenthood also anchors society. Every value we claim to care about is preserved or lost in the home. Kindness, resilience, empathy, discipline, faith, curiosity. These are not learned from tweets or trends. They are transmitted, quietly, from parent to child.
Yes, it is demanding. Yes, it stretches you. But the beauty of parenthood is that it gives life meaning beyond self. Long after the noise fades and achievements blur, what remains is who you raised, how you loved, and what you passed on.
Some things are too sacred to be reduced to regret. Parenthood is one of them.
My condolences to Chimamanda and her family on the death of their son. This is a loss that no parent should ever carry.
But two things must be said.
First, notice the hypocrisy.
If this had happened in Nigeria, the usual loud mouths would have rushed out to say “Nigeria happened to her.” They would have blamed hospitals, government, and the entire country.
Now it happened in the United States, and suddenly there is silence. No outrage. No blame. No analysis of their health care system. Just quiet. That tells you everything you need to know about their dishonesty.
Second, look at how Nigerians responded. The President, the public, and people across ethnic lines all set politics aside and showed sympathy. That is culture. That is decency.
Yet there is a group that never changes. These are the same people who mocked Anthony Joshua in his moment of pain. One of them even said “Thank you Jesus.” They celebrate suffering when it does not belong to their side.
That is the difference.
One side understands humanity.
The other side only understands hatred.
And upbringing always shows.
Underrated life hack: Build a “no matter what” habit. One thing you do every day regardless of mood, chaos, or excuses. Ten minutes of writing. A short walk. A chapter read. These become your anchors. The habit isn’t the point; who you become by keeping it is.