What feeling out of place can teach us about what we bring to the room
When you feel out of place, it’s easy to spend so much energy trying to fit in that you hold back the very thing you could contribute. Maybe it’s a question no one else has asked, or a way of seeing the situation that comes from having lived a different life.
In this short reflection, I explore the strength we can find in the parts of ourselves we’ve learned to keep quiet. What would you say or do differently if you felt a little less pressure to fit in?
How much of your story should your worst chapter get to tell?
When I look back on my life, there are chapters I’d rather skip. They’re also the ones I’m tempted to reread when I’m disappointed in myself.
In this short video, I reflect on what it means to look honestly at a difficult chapter and give the rest of the story its due. When you think about your own worst chapter, how much attention do you give to what you did afterward?
A health scare made me pay attention to things I’d been putting off. Some were big questions about how I wanted to spend my time. Others were as simple as giving someone I love my full attention.
In this short video, I reflect on how easy it is to put off what matters when life feels ordinary. What would you give more attention to today if you stopped counting on a better time?
@sashayanshin You’re being shortsighted and narrow-minded. Once owning, maintaining, and insuring a vehicle costs far more than getting around in a Cybercab, millions will make the switch. The economics will drive adoption.
Think about the last time someone corrected you in front of others. What stayed with you longer, what they said or how they made you feel?
In this short reflection, I consider what it means to leave room for dignity when someone gets something wrong. Sometimes that means having the conversation in private. Sometimes it means giving the other person a chance to explain. Either way, there’s a question worth asking before we speak. Will my words help this person hear what I have to say?
If the top teams are really that good, they should have no trouble beating the teams people say don’t belong. What’s always been ridiculous about college football rankings is how much credit big programs get for piling up regular-season wins against teams that look like high school squads by comparison.
No the people who don’t like it are just cry babies lol - If the top teams are really that good, they should have no trouble beating the teams people say don’t belong. What’s always been ridiculous about college football rankings is how much credit big programs get for piling up regular-season wins against teams that look like high school squads by comparison.
If the top teams are really that good, they should have no trouble beating the teams people say don’t belong. What’s always been ridiculous about college football rankings is how much credit big programs get for piling up regular-season wins against teams that look like high school squads by comparison.
If the top teams are really that good, they should have no trouble beating the teams people say don’t belong. What’s always been ridiculous about college football rankings is how much credit big programs get for piling up regular-season wins against teams that look like high school squads by comparison.
@DrakeFantasy I agree. I enjoy some broadcasters more than others, but I’ve never tuned in because of who was calling the game. That’s why paying announcers millions seems ridiculous to me. I tune in for the game. Good commentary is a bonus.
I’d estimate that only about 10–15% of U.S. households have children young enough to need a car seat, and most Uber and Lyft trips already carry just one passenger.
What I think will change people’s habits is the math. Once people compare what they’d spend on Cybercab rides with the full cost of owning, maintaining, and insuring a car, I think a lot of them will decide they can get by without one. Over time, that could become the norm.
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “If I could do it, why can’t they?”
I have. It’s easy to remember the choices we made and overlook the circumstances that made those choices possible.
In this short reflection, I explore how our own experiences shape what we expect of others. The next time someone’s choices leave you puzzled, consider a question I’ve found worth asking myself: What might make their decision understandable if I knew more about what they’d lived through?
It’ll come down to convenience and cost. Between the purchase price, maintenance, and insurance, owning a car is getting more expensive. And for many people, that car sits parked most of the day. Once you can get a robotaxi whenever you need one for a fraction of what it costs to own a car, a lot of people will start asking themselves why they still own one.
I’m not sure I can change your mind, and I agree that everyone should have access to healthcare and education. Where I get hung up is what we’re promising when we call them human rights. I believe the people who provide those services also have a right to decide how much they’re willing to work.
Suppose a town has only one qualified doctor or one willing teacher. If meeting everyone’s needs would require that person to work 12 to 16 hours a day, should they be required to do it? If we agree they should be free to say no, what exactly are we guaranteeing, and who is responsible for making good on that promise?
@shellbi92@firesidealpha Golf courses use more water than any other business, but no one says anything about it... I wonder why Data Centers are the water villains?
@britttlifts I don’t think Aikman has any beef with Buck. He may be disappointed that ESPN prioritized Buck’s contract over his own, but given how much of his career has been built on merit, I doubt he resents a teammate’s success.
@PatRunner89 Oh sure, she seems like a sweet person, until she disagrees with your opinions. Then she takes delight in seeing you get shot in the neck.