@aaniVibeTheory As a woman I never gave a shit what a man had to offer me except love. That’s the only motivation. I can still earn my own money, cook us both meals, build a new space and find someone who shares the same opinion on kids. Marriage isnt about need but desire
@MetMan46035602@MarkBiggins7@_girlarchive True! My second pregnancy wasn’t easy but it was worth every minute for the baby that I hold daily. My body was built to hold, nourish, and protect our babies until they were in our arms and it was an honor and a privilege. If it was that bad we wouldn’t have multiples
@TheEclipsedRavN@weretoz56064@CAlexandrosGT@_girlarchive If you don’t want a “fetus using your body” then have a hysterectomy. Problem solved and then we don’t have to hear about how awful it is. Otherwise assume the assigned role from God and find the beauty in it. Growing life and raising them isn’t for everyone
@TheEclipsedRavN@weretoz56064@CAlexandrosGT@_girlarchive Yes pregnancy can kill you but it is a known risk and routine care can prevent this most times. Living, driving, airplanes, walking up the street, choking on food, swimming, you name it can also kill you and we all do it. The baby grows in a woman and it is beautiful.
@TheEclipsedRavN@weretoz56064@CAlexandrosGT@_girlarchive I’ve been pregnant 2 times and had big babies. (8 pounds 8 ounces and almost 10pounds) I was sick the first 12 weeks while taking care of a toddler, working, going to school for my masters and taking care of my house. I had placenta previa and was high risk.
@TheBeforeFiles@venatrixwolf Women are more emotional and that is great for raising families and being amazing wives but this shit is out of control. The entitlement alone is enough to send them all back to the kitchen and sign them out to a dominant man to handle. A man should have to sponsor their freedom
@MarkBiggins7@_girlarchive I always felt guilty that I got to grow our children. Men will never know what it feels like to have little kicks and flutters. Or the instant bond that happens between mother and child. I bet some men would choose to experience it if they had the option. I loved pregnancy lol
@weretoz56064@CAlexandrosGT@_girlarchive Have you been pregnant? The first 12 weeks is hard if you get sick and yes you’re tired. The rest of pregnancy is beautiful with kicks, flips, hiccups and tons of movement and growth. The last few weeks are hard but then you have a beautiful baby and we all tend to do it again.
@TheOneFarAbove@_girlarchive Because feminism is like a brain eating amoeba and women now take the beautiful purpose we have and make it sound like a form of torture or punishment. Everything is set out to divide us rather than to appreciate our differences and strengthen the bond. Very sad
@_girlarchive 50% of the genetic makeup and a lifetime with a whiney bitch for a coparent if they choose wrong. How about we focus on the beautiful parts like the kicks, movements, hiccups and the bond we form. Stop making pregnancy sound horrible and like a death sentence
@Sonderisfon No. The vows say in sickness and in health. For richer or poorer until death do us part. I will pick that man up on his worst day and appreciate him on his best. Is him and I against the world until my last breath
@CallMe_Zyroo Women on the other hand look at what a man has to offer financially in the moment instead of seeing long term and men look at her past to predict the patterns. It’s not the same thing
@CallMe_Zyroo Women on the other hand look at what a man has to offer financially in the moment instead of seeing long term and men look at her past to predict the patterns. It’s not the same thing
@CallMe_Zyroo The thing is that everyone has a preference when it comes to looks. Everyone has a type that literally catches the eye first. Most of the things you listed happen for both genders before the first encounter happens and influence the decision to approach.
I’m one minor inconvenience away from packing my bags, moving to a farm with no signal, deleting every app, and only communicating through handwritten letters that take a week to arrive.
Anyone else?