I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others
my biggest fear is that i’m actually like 4 months pregnant at any given moment and i have no idea until it’s too late and then i will have no other choice but to push a giant creature out of my vagina. i would rather get my head chopped off i think