When I was 19, a guy grabbed my breast in a nightclub so I slapped him across the face immediately.
Everyone gasped at me for slapping him but no one gasped at him for assaulting me. This is what has been normalised.
It is not acceptable.
Remember, when breasts are used to sell cars, booze, video games, and male enjoyment, it's fine. But when they're used to feed a baby, it's offensive and sexual which is utterly horrific because it's actually just a woman Feeding her child.
Only a woman can write a scene like this bec this is exactly what women do in love and hope that men do for them. To be loved is to have someone listen to the song you mentioned, or watch a movie you like. Always the little things.