this morning, i was almost beaten up at a local eatery in Wendani. Four men started being transphobic towards a guy who came to buy chapatis, they waited until he left to start talking shit, not knowing my gay ass was listening, cowards, so i did what a man should do stood up for our own and taught them a lesson with words they’ll never forget, the waitress there was nice and on my side telling them to leave and that she wont serve them and they are not welcomed🏳️⚧️
Siku hizi ku differentiate between kale ladies and gents itakua ngumu, cus the men gossip even more than the ladies. They overdo it like they owe someone breast milk. Recently I sat besides two in a meeting and I could tell from their accents. So at our firm is a man, whose wife has taken years before taking in. So they talked about how the man had struggled, tried & was even advised to divorce his wife but he declined. When they saw me looking at them with contempt and curious face they switched to their native tongue. But I still deciphered. They said all evil things I've ever heard women talk about other women about and even gave each other high fives. According to them, the man was bewitched, or didn't have an upperhand in the marriage. They reckoned that he should just discard the wife and look for another woman. They even thought that if it was in their culture, how the woman should be dealt with. Last time I checked, ti's was womens' characters, to sit and gossip, laughing at each other's problems.