There are women who will talk for hours without gossiping even once about other people. They talk about their goals, their interests, their fears, their routines, their past, their desires, but not a single moment do they talk about others.
I did not think this was possible. I did not know healthy women who avoided gossip existed, but they do. It truly is so refreshing to talk to someone for hours about life & not once need to mention others in the conversation.
Dear Yorubas,
I am really curious to know, is it part of your culture to come back to your benefactor the next day to say “thanks for yesterday”?
I’ve noticed that EVERY Yoruba person that I’ve assisted on this app would send a message the next day to say “thank you for yesterday”.
I’ve not noticed this with any other tribe and I don’t do it either.
Please I need to know.
Can someone please recommend a tv series that's actually addictive, the kind that makes people stay up all night and finish season one in a sitting???????
I applied to your firm for a job, you sent me rejection letter, very normal. I took it.
What I won’t take is you adding me to your subscribers, sending me news letter. You too dey go!!!
When I go to someone’s house and I see something that’s nice and working perfectly in their house, I come back home and try to see if I can replicate it or buy it for my house. I wonder how our leaders think when they travel out and see how developed countries function?
King David was a worshipper and a fighter. As he dey write psalms, he still dey sharpen sword at the same time.
I don’t know what kind of Christianity y’all are practicing in +234
When she pulls you closer, it is not just about hiding her face or rolling her eyes in peace.
It is usually about control, comfort, and wanting to feel more connected in that moment.
Men who think it is random miss the signal completely.
Physical cues matter more than words in those situations.
If she is pulling you in, holding you, guiding your movement, that is engagement, not distraction.
A sharp man reads that and adjusts, not overthinks it.
Too many men get stuck trying to decode every small action instead of staying present and aware.
Confidence is not about analyzing every move like a puzzle.
It is about staying grounded and responding naturally to what is happening.
Also understand this.
Not everything a woman does has some hidden negative meaning.
Sometimes she is just enjoying the moment in her own way.
If your mind jumps to insecurity or over-interpretation, you ruin your own experience.
Stay focused, stay aware, and stop trying to control every detail.
Control comes from presence, not from overthinking.
And if she is pulling you closer, that usually means you are doing something right.
Do not turn a good moment into confusion just because your mind needs a story.
I think I must have said this before.
1. Do not build in the same compound with your brother. If you must, make sure that there is a clear demarcation by fencing yours.
2. Do not contribute money together with your brother to build a house. Build yours and let him build his.
3. Do not abandon your own house project to renovate a family house, unless you have enough money to do so, or you are the first son.
4. Once you marry a wife, every property you acquire should be known to your wife. Do not say that you want to hide things from your wife while trusting your brother with all the details.
5. As long as you know that your wife is a good wife to you, tell her that if you suddenly die, she should immediately take all your important documents out of the house to a safe place. If you have more than one car before your demise, ask her to sell any cars that are no longer needed and keep the money for herself and your children.
6. If you're going to do any business with your brother, do so on clear legal and agreed terms. Treat him like a business partner, not like a blood brother.
If you doubt any of these things that I have said, screenshot it and send to your father.
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