AN AVOIDANT CAN HEAL.
They can learn to love openly.
They can learn to stay when things get uncomfortable.
They can learn to communicate instead of disappearing.
They can let someone get close without automatically feeling trapped.
But there is ONE thing they have to do first.οΏΌ 1/5
Smoking weed delays emotional processing and maturity.
If you started smoking weed as a teenager, and you havenβt stopped in your 20βs-30βs, mentally, youβre still a teenager.
If you started smoking weed to cope with a traumatic experience, you are delaying your own healing by burying it instead of actually processing it.
As a former pothead, I know potheads have a hard time accepting this truth. Even going to the point of denial