As someone who pours into her own cup and takes herself on solo dates and solo travels, trust me when I say it’s so hard for a man to match that standard.
I hate when a job asks you to set "goals"
My only "goal" is to remain employed so I can continue to pay for my living expenses while finding fulfillment in the areas of my life unrelated to a day job.
It’s hard to admit, but I’m really burned out. I feel drained, exhausted, unmotivated, and tired in ways that sleep can’t fix. I’m trying, but everything just feels heavier than it should.
Live alone. Chill alone. Vibe alone. Eat in a restaurant alone. Go for long walks alone. Stare at walls alone. Stare the the stars alone. Journal alone. Reflect on life alone. Think about "who am I?" alone. Connect with yourself alone. Be present in your own life alone.
The real luxury is having slow mornings. No alarms. No rushing to work. No need to hurry your coffee. You wake up naturally after 8 hours of sleep, pray, shower, eat, and then you’re ready to start your day. That’s wealth to me.