@Ncomzie@moneyymaya This take makes me so sad and I've never even been pregnant. So many things can happen during pregnancy.. Imagine miscarrying after announcing and now I have to make an announcement to all my loved ones yet again...must be heartwrenching💔
@NtanyaPM Excuse my ignorance if it is ignorance..but what if I don't even want the crowd during mine or my loved ones functions (funeral or wedding)? My parents believe in community and are big givers but I've just never seen the benefits to it besides money draining.
@user177767@hoe_ace@SilumaKhanya But fact remains your actions profusely negatively affect YOUR kids, sometimes taking away the little fighting chance they had at life, we can't make that disappear even if we wanted to.
@user177767@hoe_ace@SilumaKhanya Unfortunately it doesn't change the struggle of the kids either as much as I agree with Ace that as a parent its harder to "excuse you" compared to someone without kids I also understand that it's a struggle for the person experiencing it too. Its a sad situation for both parties
@TraceyMachona@Rickymute1 Are you not gonna at least fix your rhetoric or just take down the post altogether since you now know that your publicly shared assumption is false?
@gut_guardian@EarlOfGC This is such a daft take especially in the age of social media where you get to see matshelo a vastly different from yours everyday...surely your life at 18 is not the universal blueprint?