Stop romanticizing the idea of being "in love" with someone you don't actually know on a deeper level. Admiring from a distance is not the same as loving someone. You construct a whole other person...it's unhealthy for every party involved. Goes for people regardless of gender
i get so sad going back to my empty place after a night with my friends, i'm very certain we're meant to fall asleep in a pile together like a litter of puppies