@shiraishia_md Among your backward societies.
Here in Buganda we were already carrying out C-Sections effectively saving both mother and child(ren) long before colonialism
@CanaryMugume Naye kasujjulubinga n'amala atandika okunanagira ku Ono Semakokiro, awo ajja kakasa nti abatooro ba kisa.
Era byonna babikole, bisigale eyo e wala
acabei de ler a frase: βeu sou uma pessoa muito tolerante e vou te perdoar mil vezes se necessΓ‘rio, mas um dia eu vou te deixar pra trΓ‘s por nΓ£o ter gostado da cor da sua camisa, e vocΓͺ vai achar que foi por conta da sua camisa, mas nunca foi.β e eu nunca me identifiquei tanto
Praise be to GOD.
Everything worthwhile takes time, unwavering care and patience. Every stage of this journey - the quiet growing, picking, sorting, and the final pushβreflects the beauty of consistent effort.
Keep tending to your own set goals, trust GOD & season you are in.
The moment you notice somebody is a tit-for-tat person, you should steer clear of being roped into their very childish, manipulative games. This is the type of person that, rather than expressing how they feel about something, bringing the communication properly to the table, hearing your side and allowing the issue to be dealt with there, they harbour things, become resentful, struggle to genuinely forgive you and eventually feel like the only way they can move past what happened is if they get their lick back. They need to somehow make you feel what they felt.
I love my Entebbe people especially those in Bugonga for that. everyone is social and they all provide a backbone to raise the children together as one big family. Social responsibility and looking out for them even when I am not around, I am certain they can never go hungry.
I have a whole community of new adult friends I never thought about coz of my girls, they're so friendly sometimes beyond what my nervous system can handle, but all the same, I am grateful that the Community Policy of child upbringing is back.
Consider all relationships as alliances for mutual gains and interests satisfaction. And when the βintegrating interestβ deteriorates, itβs safe for all parties to separate without any form of hatred, malice or prejudice. You simply just wish them well.
Most times, weβre too attached to people that we believe theyβll always stick with us forever. And if youβve got real people around you, itβs a privilege from nature. You should be grateful everyday. But nevertheless, always have it in mind that people separate, situations make individuals distant and life evolves. Itβs all experiences. Learn, adapt and grow.
Marriage used to be the starting point.
Two people would come together with almost nothing to their name, but each other, and then they would build everything side by side. This process of building led to bonding, it built loyalty, it required tremendous sacrifice and most of all it taught interdependence. But now we are told the opposite. We are told instead that we need to have it all before we marry.
We need a good career, a home, a bunch of money in the bank, your entire identity discovered and solidified, a passport filled with stamps, a degree and much dating experience.
The problem with this is that by the time two people finally decide to join one another, well they have spent most of their lives learning how to do life alone.
So it is not wonder then that building a life with someone else, suddenly feels so much harder. Marriage used to be a beginning, not it is an after thought to an already built life.
Two already self-sufficient and self-reliant people do not easily merge and mesh. It is hard to go from the perspective of βmineβ, to βoursβ, when individualism is all we have ever known.
And this is why individualism has become the death of marriage.
if youβre ever learning extremely personal information about someone you donβt know, through the mouth of someone they once considered a friend, everything should be taken with a grain of salt & you should most definitely be questioning why that person told you such intimate information