start embarrassingly small. wake up 5 minutes earlier. do 1 push-up daily. write 1 sentence. read 1 page. walk around the block. meditate for 30 seconds. drink 1 glass of water. make your bed. do it to build identity. do it to create momentum. do it to compound results. do it to transform everything.
SHYNESS MAKES YOU LOOK WEAK
Be arrogant. Confidence is key to everything. Social skills are important. You’re more than enough. Don’t be afraid to look stupid. Ask questions. Get what you want. Let them judge you. It’s all in your head. Speak up. Share what’s on your mind. Your opinions and preferences matter.
When you were a kid, being shy was considered something normal. But the moment you grow up, when you have ambitions, dreams to fulfill, and desires to satisfy - nobody will come and ask what you want.
👉 You must let the whole world know.
Otherwise, you’ll keep replaying scenarios in your head while lying in bed trying to fall asleep. Thoughts like, “I should’ve said this.” “I could’ve had that.” “I embarrassed myself… i feel so much shame” will consume your energy, and you’ll wake up tired and broken. You’ll visualize the life you want, wishing you could spend more time in your dreams, because the lack of inner work makes life after waking up feel wasted.
All because of one fragile obstacle: caring too much about what others think of you.
Just go do something unusual in public. Nothing bad will happen to you. Make the outside world your training ground, where there’s no Final Boss, only people passing by that you’ll probably never see again.
Opportunities will be everywhere. The people you resonate with most, the love of your life, meaning in what you do, an endless amount of interests are all on the other side of the bridge.
The only thing you need to cross it is delusional confidence, and not treating every stranger seriously with their useless opinions.
♦️Myron gives some tough love to fans who approach him in public on some weirdo sh*t!😭💀
“They don’t understand any type of spatial awareness! Their breath smells, they’re awkward, they’re weird! What’s wrong with you!? I’m telling you this cause I give a fvck, you can’t behave like this!”
1. Never, ever hide your interest in a girl, that being said, don't make it obvious.
2. Be manly, don't give attention when they ask for it. Be a challenge, be mean in a fun way, don't care too much, don't give them all your time, don't give them all your attention. Dont focus all your energy on just one girl.
3. If they friendzone you, stop talking to them at once.
4. If they cheat on you, leave them at once and never think back on it.
5. If you joke around too much and they get butthurt, use "I can make it up to you, I give great massages" or hug her.
6. Never explain yourself. Apologize ONLY when needed. Never doubt yourself, EVER.
7. Believe in everything, every fucking thing you ever do. Visualize and plan what you want, do it. Don't doubt yourself, ever.
8. Confidence will get you everything you want. Confidence works with girls, dogs, interviews, even for getting friends. Fuck, you can even use it to get away from cops. Confidence is a virtue which you MUST have. It is a fucking need.
9. If you want to talk to a girl, go up to her and say Hi, if you have doubts, destroy them.
10. "What if she laughs at me." Then don't dress like a faggot, don't talk like a faggot and don't act like someone that she'll laugh at. You have a brain, use it, plan, think, believe in your plan, act on it.
11. Think of what to say, don't just ask everyone, being lazy is easy, being lazy won't get you anywhere. Don't be the person that gets everything handed to him, be the man that gets whatever he wants.
12. Stand the fuck up and get what you want. Women want men, not boys with emotions. Women want men that will change the world. The world wants men that change it.
13. Never ask for permission "Do you want to..?" Always assume that they do. Change the question into an order, if they can't or don't want to, they're still going to reject you in the same way. Only difference is you come off as more assertive.
14.
"Do you want to do something this weekend?" Change it to
"I'm free tomorrow, let's hangout and have fun"
15. Look them in the eye when they talk to you, don't shift between eyes, pick one and stick to it, when the topic changes, or when you start talking, it's okay to break contact for a few seconds, but maintain it when you're talking. If it's something sexual, don't you fucking DARE break eye contact.
16. Smile every now and then every so slyly. Don't know how to make a sexy smile? Pretend you're about to fuck the shit out of her.
17. Always stand with your feet shoulder length apart. Hands with thumb in the pocket, rest of fingers pointing towards to your crotch. It's sexual and confident, better than hiding your hands in your pockets or just leaving them out there awkwardly.
18. When you walk, walk slowly and confidently, look people in the eye as you walk, don't you DARE look at the ground at any time.
19. When sitting down, lean back a little, be casual, spread your legs a little more than shoulder length, don't cross your arms unless if you want to come off as uninviting.
20. Laugh loudly, don't laugh at everything. Make her work for your attention.
21. Don't spam them with texts. Don't call them unless if it's to meet up with her. If she calls, talk to her but if you feel the conversation dying out, end it by saying you have something to do. Lie if you have to, but be smart about it.
22. If she does something awkward or weird, point it out and make fun of her for it, don't over do it, and make sure it's at least a little funny. Women laugh easily.
23. No sudden head movements, move slow, and confidently. Walk as if you own the place, always. Take up space.
24. Touch her, when you're walking, push her jokingly, move her using your hand on her lower back. Open doors for her, guide her away from water or gross things that she might walk into. Always be on the "dangerous" side of the road, be it cars or sketchy people. Make her feel safe and protected.
25. If it's cold, give her your jacket, don't ask if she wants it. If she's shivering or says "I'm so cold" take it off and put it on her. Don't ask, don't say anything, do it.
26. If you think something she said is wrong, TELL HER. Women respect men with opinions, don't agree with everything. Actually talk and discuss with her.
27. If they talk about their ex, give them cold body language and/or quickly try to change the topic. If it's something sad, say this "Hey now, we're having fun, let's not share sob stories" Be prepared to quickly talk about something else, always have at least 5 backup stories incase the conversation goes stale. Leave sob stories for later on in the relationship.
28. Don't settle for women with standards. If you're not genuinely interested, find someone else.
29. Don't do the whole "LOL FUCK FATTIES AND WORK YOUR WAY UP" no. You only deserve the best. Hotter women are easier and usually bigger sluts. It's shocking but true.
30. I have plenty more if anyone is interested.
The brain does not hate hard work. It hates unclear effort. If it cannot see where the work is going, how long it will last, or why it matters, it starts treating the task like failure instead of a challenge.
you must believe you are special and then go so hard, for so long, with such violent refusal to accept any other ending, that reality itself starts running out of ways to tell you no. you must wage a war daily against the ordinary outcome, until the belief you invented out of nothing in a room by yourself has been hammered into the world so many times that it stops being a claim and becomes reality.
Duke Dennis had multiple girls ALL OVER HIM after they recognized him in Miami, complimenting how good he looked, smelled, and asking for pictures 😭🔥👀
“He’s so fine… you smell good, the rumors are true. Dada, let me get a picture with you… I hope we’re not on stream. My ex boutta be mad, he follows you”
I hate to tell men this but
The women dressed provocatively in the gym do want attention
They are only upset when it comes from the guy they didn’t want it from
That’s why the reaction is what it is
It’s not your fault for noticing
And yes, they will continue to deny this.
Most women are a lot more compliant than most guys realize.
Try asking a girl you’re talking to to…
• “Let me see that ring!”
• “Step over here a second.”
• “Let’s grab a quick seat.”
• “How about we walk & talk?”
• “Why don’t we go hit up a diner?”
• “Let’s head back for a nightcap.”
The key is just being relaxed, casual, friendly, and inviting as you do it.
Women will often go surprisingly far with you, sooner than you’d think.
Most women are a lot more compliant than most guys realize.
Try asking a girl you’re talking to to…
• “Let me see that ring!”
• “Step over here a second.”
• “Let’s grab a quick seat.”
• “How about we walk & talk?”
• “Why don’t we go hit up a diner?”
• “Let’s head back for a nightcap.”
The key is just being relaxed, casual, friendly, and inviting as you do it.
Women will often go surprisingly far with you, sooner than you’d think.
A girl at Blueface’s sleepover noticed Deshae Frost looking sad watching Blueface get all the girls attention, so she made sure he wouldn’t feel left out 😭🤣
There's a subreddit where women post a picture of their dinner and air out their frustrations going on in their lives.
>Woman, 26 Asian
>Married a guy she hates
>Moved across the continent to be with him
>Hates his personality(fishes, beer, etc)
>Boring Midwesterner
>Peaked in high school
>Has to "be his mom"
>Plans on getting another job and leaving him
This guy probably has no idea she hates him and is going to get financially ruined