in the process of moving on i realized i didn’t have an anxious attachment style. i was attached to someone who constantly made me feel anxious, out of place, and insecure. sometimes it takes removing yourself from certain people to really learn yourself.
Being in a healthy relationship really taught me there's no such thing as 'that's just the way I am'. When you truly love someone you work on those toxic traits, you learn to communicate, you actively listen to each others thoughts & feelings – you adjust, grow & heal together.
you can’t scare me with being alone forever, you can’t convince me my standards are too high or that i’m undeserving of the kind of love i want. if you try, you’re only informing me of your own fears.