You will find as time goes on that this piece of wisdom that she shares below applies to motherhood at almost every stage. Getting out the door with your kids is harder only in your head. Being a stay at home mom who’s never at home is a million times easier and enjoyable than being a stay at home mom trapped indoors.
If your definition of equality requires mothers and fathers to be interchangeable, I have news for you: your equality comes at the price of child harm.
Babies don’t need a plastic nipple and industrial formula loaded with corn syrup, emulsifiers, stabilizers and preservatives so adults can congratulate themselves on "fairness."
They need their mothers in ways they do not need their fathers.
Only mothers produce living, adaptive, organic food, perfectly calibrated for THAT baby, male or female; adjusted when the child is sick; responsive to stress; changing across the day; with hindmilk that develops the brain and body in ways no factory can reproduce. That nourishment comes from her body alone, never his.
And this isn’t a slight against fathers. Fathers do essential things mothers cannot do. Real equality does not mean sameness. It means honoring difference without forcing children to pay the cost.
So stop measuring everything through a child-oppressive lens of adult gender equality. Children are not obstacles in your ideological experiment.
buying a baby because you don’t want to ruin your ozempic body and posing on the internet like you were the one who gave birth to it is some serious handmaid’s tale type shit
Marriage with babies and toddlers is less butterflies and fun dates and more “thank you for still loving me even when I’m overstimulated and acting like an insane person.”
Questo post rappresenta un perfetto esempio dell'archetipo jungiano noto come la "Madre Terribile".
Esso incarna il principio materno della prevenzione che, privo della moderazione paterna, si trasforma in una forza distruttiva. In nome della sicurezza assoluta, i bambini vengono allevati in modo da non essere in grado di assumersi responsabilità o rischi, finendo per diventare adulti fragili e dipendenti.
Oggi, schiere di donne senza figli o prive di partner maschili affidabili proiettano i loro istinti materni sulla società intera, dando vita allo "stato-mamma": un'entità redistributrice e socialista, disposta a sacrificare ogni cosa pur di garantire una protezione totale.
L'opposto della Madre Terribile e dello stato-mamma è il "Padre Orco" e lo "stato-papà": un sistema rigido, aggressivo, punitivo e violento, pronto a immolare tutto sull'altare della disciplina e della dominazione.
Potrebbe sembrare sufficiente bilanciare queste due forze estreme, ma il problema affonda radici ben più profonde.
La causa fondamentale risiede nel fatto che lo Stato è sempre una proiezione genitoriale. In quanto tale, infantilizza inevitabilmente il cittadino, trasformando la società in un collettivo di bambini capricciosi: strillanti, impotenti, irresponsabili, bisognosi, deboli ed emotivi.
Più un cittadino adulto rimane psicologicamente infantile, più esigerà con veemenza l'intervento dello Stato, perpetuando così un ciclo di dipendenza.
Birth was created to be
Warm
Private
Dark
Dynamic
Undisturbed
Nourished
Free to move
Instinctive
Relaxed
Emotional
Spiritual
and Faithful,
Yet hospital births were designed to be
Cold
Frequently monitoring
Bright
Static
Over-managing
Starving
Restrictive
Calculating
Tense
Emotionless
Spiritually void
and Full of Fear.
it’s unfortunate that many women believe that women will choose to labor unmedicated for simply the “medal” or bragging rights instead of understanding the true prize (and the reasons to do it unmedicated) being a smoother recovery, lower risk of 3rd/4th degree tearing, lower risk of needing vacuum or forceps, the ability to move around during and after birth, peeing without a catheter, your natural flow of hormones following labor are not disrupted and allow for best baby bonding and breastfeeding outcomes, less swelling, avoiding possible long-term complications like chronic pain and nerve damage, and the many more benefits.
so yes, you should be proud of yourself for enduring the worst now for you and your baby’s benefit later.
Congresso di burocrati per decidere i metodi migliori per diminuire il potere di acquisto dei risparmiatori e togliere risorse all'economia reale a favore delle lobby bancarie. #Bitcoin fixes this
autistic men are the exact archetype you want to marry. autistic nerds who dedicate all their free time to their autistic interests instead of chasing women. these men make the most loving husbands and are usually incredibly handsome and well educated.
I’m turning 41, but I don’t feel like celebrating.
Our generation is running out of time to save the free Internet built for us by our fathers.
What was once the promise of the free exchange of information is being turned into the ultimate tool of control.
Once-free countries are introducing dystopian measures such as digital IDs (UK), online age checks (Australia), and mass scanning of private messages (EU).
Germany is persecuting anyone who dares to criticize officials on the Internet. The UK is imprisoning thousands for their tweets. France is criminally investigating tech leaders who defend freedom and privacy.
A dark, dystopian world is approaching fast — while we’re asleep. Our generation risks going down in history as the last one that had freedoms — and allowed them to be taken away.
We’ve been fed a lie.
We’ve been made to believe that the greatest fight of our generation is to destroy everything our forefathers left us: tradition, privacy, sovereignty, the free market, and free speech.
By betraying the legacy of our ancestors, we’ve set ourselves on a path toward self-destruction — moral, intellectual, economic, and ultimately biological.
So no, I’m not going to celebrate today. I’m running out of time. WE are running out of time.