@Alpha___Lyrae Lo so :/ io quando ho iniziato mi sono vergognata troppo a dirlo però dopo è uscito il discorso e mi hanno detto "che ti pensavi".... 🫥🫥🫥
You can tell a lot about a person by the way they speak of love, especially when they say they do not want it, or that having a partner will become a blockage to the life they are meant to build. More often than not, it is an ideology of love constructed from trauma, disappointment, fear, and the slow humiliation of believing that what they truly desire may never arrive.
Everyone wants love. At the end of the day, when the world has gone quiet and you are lying in your bed with nothing left to perform, to prove, to distract yourself with, the body still seeks warmth, connection, recognition, and the unbearable tenderness of being known by someone who chooses to stay. People deny this and call it freedom because they have started thinking that hopelessness is enlightenment.
Love does not block growth. Love reveals where growth is still required. It will not always arrive as softness, ease, and gilded reassurance. Sometimes it will come as confrontation, rupture, discomfort, patience, repair, and the excruciating demand to remain present with another human being when every wounded part of you wants to run. You have to stay long enough to discover what the love is trying to make of you.
The right love gives you a centre from which you can enter the world with greater courage. You become more free to explore, build, create, risk, and become, because you are no longer moving through life with that quiet, subterranean ache of wondering whether anyone truly loves you, or whether all your striving is only an elaborate attempt to distract yourself from the absence of home.
When you are loved properly, the question of what you are working so hard for begins to answer itself. You are building for a life that can hold love, protect it, honour it, and make it easier for both of you to exist inside the world.
Those who have truly loved know this intimately. Love is one of the most brutal, sacred, and transformative forces through which you truly grow.
Siamo profondamente turbati dalla notizia dell'#arresto della Dott.ssa Dima Mohammed Amin, specialista in ostetricia e ginecologia, prelevata dalla sua casa in #Cisgiordania. La Dott.ssa Dima è l'ultima vittima della campagna di detenzione del personale medico palestinese.
And it hammers home when the message that “the one thing all these future monsters will share is failure” the team that does end up winning nationals doesn’t have a single player go pro and we never get to meet that team. They’re literally nobodies.