I'm neurodivergent and so are my parents. My parents both had science degrees so they are very much into the natural biology and life cycles in nature. I thought the birds & the bees was just a metaphor for the sex talk. I didn't think bee = man and bird = woman until today when everyone said that's what it means.
It's cool though male bees are basically non existent and that metaphor is stupid. But everyone who thinks this is fine can carry on with their weird vague metaphors if that works for them I guess. And you know what birds aren't real and bees are dying so good luck telling ur kids what's what in the real world 💀
The way that everyone in these comments & quotes have zero kink education...
Ok I'll say it for everyone looking for the answer - BDSM is a culture that evolved out of marginalized communities who are ALL traumatized. All of them. Everyone who participates in BDSM is traumatized in one way or another.
Correct me if I'm wrong please, but I've never met anyone who partakes in D/s relationships who doesn't have some level of trauma.
Now with that being said, BDSM is EMPOWERING. it's a way to work through things without being judged, in a SAFE, CONSENSUAL space.
People who are serious members of this community know exactly where their hard & soft limits are (and how they evolve over time).
We do not welcome to the community anyone who perpetuates non-consensual violence or violation of boundaries.
And if these activities are too triggering for you to see... Remove bdsm tags from your searches and clean up your feeds.
And make sure any NSFW accounts you do follow are age verified.
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The way that everyone in these comments & quotes have zero kink education...
Ok I'll say it for everyone looking for the answer - BDSM is a culture that evolved out of marginalized communities who are ALL traumatized. All of them. Everyone who participates in BDSM is traumatized in one way or another.
Correct me if I'm wrong please, but I've never met anyone who partakes in D/s relationships who doesn't have some level of trauma.
Now with that being said, BDSM is EMPOWERING. it's a way to work through things without being judged, in a SAFE, CONSENSUAL space.
People who are serious members of this community know exactly where their hard & soft limits are (and how they evolve over time).
We do not welcome to the community anyone who perpetuates non-consensual violence or violation of boundaries.
And if these activities are too triggering for you to see... Remove bdsm tags from your searches and clean up your feeds.
And make sure any NSFW accounts you do follow are age verified.
🎩
@tsurudraws The USB-C high powered phone chargers are so loud and juiced up that they keep buzzing for a good few seconds after you unplug them from the wall
petition for astrologers to start responding, “idk google it” when inconsiderate people comment “2H?” “12H???” “Leo 3H??” “my asshole??” under their well thought out & informative posts