Ambrosia Mhlanga

[Lerato ᧔ෆ᧓ @_BellaM_]

I’m sorry but we stood no chance 😭 You look at the calibre of people other countries appoint as ministers and then look at South Africa. Rwanda has a Sports Minister with a degree in Economics and a Master’s in Economic Policy Management. Ours his background includes a criminal conviction with no qualifications. We even have a Minister of Defence with no military rank. The difference in the standards we accept for public office is staggering.

[Lethabo Online @LethaboS2]

Hello ladies

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[Lynette Ntuli @MsNtuli]

Sis Phindile was gang-raped by 8 men in Tembisa. She has had 5 operations to repair her broken body. Yesterday she stood up, and showed Pres. Ramaphosa her naked scars at the Presidential Summit on Gender-Based Violence and Femicide. Here is her story. 💔 https://t.co/HyGkcw31bY

[Ambrosia Mhlanga @goofy_scorpio]

@CityTshwane Any updates?

[Tshenolo PI @TshenoloPi]

⚠️ URGENT: NEW KIDNAPPING SCAM IN SOUTH AFRICA - PLEASE SHARE ⚠️*

Ladies, please be careful in town, taxi ranks, malls, and parking lots. There’s a new method kidnappers are using:

*How the scam works:*
1. *The approach*: A man in a car stops next to you. He calls you by a name or says “Hey, get in the car! We’ve been looking for you.”
2. If you refuse and say you don’t know him, he immediately switches tactics.
He turns to people around and says loud enough for everyone to hear:
_“Don’t worry guys, she’s my wife. She has amnesia / she’s mentally ill. She gets confused like this. I just need to get her home.”_
3. *Why it works*: People don’t want to interfere in “family problems” or with someone who “has a mental illness.” So they look away. That’s exactly what he’s counting on. That’s how he gets you into the car. That’s the strategy

*IF THIS HAPPENS TO YOU:*
- Do NOT get in the car for any reason.
- Be loud and specific*: Yell “*I DO NOT KNOW THIS MAN. THIS IS KIDNAPPING. PLEASE CALL THE POLICE AND HELP ME.*”
The word “KIDNAPPING” makes people react way faster than “I’m fine.”
- *Draw attention*: Drop your bags, sit on the ground, scream. Make it impossible for him to look normal.
- *Call for help*

*AS A MEMBER OF THE PUBLIC IF YOU SEE THIS HAPPENING:*
- Don’t assume it’s domestic. Don’t walk away, help the victim.

- Step in and ask the Scammer directly*: If they know the person they are trying to take, if they say yes, Ask the lady (victim) to whisper her name to you or the Lady(victim) to show you her ID…then Tell the scammer/kidnapper to tell you the name of that lady(victim) he’s trying to take.… if the scammer gets the name wrong it simply means he was trying to kidnap the lady….
- *Call 10111 or SAPS* right away and tell them you suspect a kidnapping.
- *Take details*: Car color, make, license plate, location, what the man looks like. Send to police and share to warn others.

Kidnappers are using our fear of “getting involved” and stigma around mental illness against us. Let’s not let it work.

*Please share this with your sisters, mothers, friends, coworkers, and WhatsApp groups.* One share could save a life.
Stay in groups where you can. Trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is.

*Emergency numbers for Johannesburg:*
Tshenolopi: [phone]
SAPS: 10111 | Ambulance: 10177 | JMPD: 011 758 9650 | GBV Helpline: 0800 428 428

#SouthAfrica #KidnappingScam #WomensSafety #SAPS #StayAlert #TshenoloPI

[Lulu @bongyluaziey]

A 15 year old is trying to get justice for her 6 year old sister who was graped by their transport driver. They live with their grandma, the perpetrator and his sister are threatening them. Im not popular but please share so this lands on the right people.Shes been trying since June.

[Amelia ᥫ᭡ @NotJustLerato]

Have you guys heard of the new scam happening around where a guy(foreigners) randomly comes up to a random woman and claims to be their husband, even when you scream that you don’t know him he proceeds to lie and say you’re psycho they should mind their own business “he will talk to you at home”😳✋🕊️

[🙂 @lowloN]

I really wish I had a baby young cause the older I get the less appealing the whole thing is for me. 😭😔 and I genuinely believe motherhood is in the cards for me but damn I know TOO much! Some things just need you to be a little naive 😔

[Luna M ✨ @tiredfeminist_]

This part had me in STITCHES!!!😭😭😭😭

[himmy neutron. @kaggiso]

nigga masturbated in front of her? ke sexual harassment mos

[𝙺𝚊𝙼𝚊𝚕𝚞𝚕𝚎𝚔𝚊🦄 @Sizi_phiwe]

Let him lead kwi relationship yenu because uyena owazi inhloso & his intentions ngawe. Ungamxini ngothando umhambele phambili give him the same energy he gives you. If he doesn't call thula nawe ungabi islima.

[Ifra خان @Pathanii__]

I don’t ask men for anything. I prefer to see what a man chooses to do for me on his own.

[Alizwa Sikhafungana 🇿🇦 @alizwa_mendy]

i absolutely appreciate a man endigowisayo before the relationship actually ends. it makes moving on so easy cos as soon as we over, i rediscover how lovely it is to be calm and free of anxiety. uphele tu umgowo.

[‏ً @itsnwts]

My man said something to me that really stuck.

He told me, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”

He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.

[TSHIAMO @tshianki]

Move on immediately when you start dreaming about him cheating.

[𝔻𝕒𝕟. @fwdaniels]

both are 10/10 movies!

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

i've learned 3 lessons this year. To leave people where they at, accept situations for what they are, and not every action needs a reaction.

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

• being scared to voice your opinions
• extreme fear of making mistakes
• being a forced introvert
• having social anxiety
• people pleasing

It did not.

[denise julia ♡ @denisejvlia]

ive killed a thousand versions of myself to be this calm

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

I detach very fast. Anything i love extremely deeply I'm prepared to lose. It can break my heart but I have learned how to keep going. It can seem cold, but if it takes me off my pivot.. I’ll cut my finger off to save my hand.

I can’t lose myself again, for anything. I'll heal