indu

Banker, dancer, book worm, traveler , compulsive roadie n foodie

[indu @gopal_indu]

@Article19_1_a_ @HemaniBhandari Girls remain silent because at the first sign of complaint parents start restricting their freedom - no one tries to address the problem - add to
It uncles and aunties come with the leaf and thorn adage

[indu @gopal_indu]

@lsob_ @modularform @biased_human Nah - all of these insti have another rule - you fail a couple of exams you automatically lose years - and beyond a level you get booted out - so simple - once you are caught cheating fail the test -

[indu @gopal_indu]

@modularform @biased_human Fail him in the test - tht is it - you don’t have to do anything else

[indu @gopal_indu]

@TweetsOfKunal @Ajain112 As long as it is not in your plate / you are not forced to eat it let others eat whatever they want -

[indu @gopal_indu]

@Sritika_ @In_Sane_Saint That will cost him opportunities esp if clients are not Indians

[indu @gopal_indu]

@Auroch1966 @DrAyeshaRay Well they are bought up like kings

[indu @gopal_indu]

@the_psyche_lab If you are a Menon your surname / family name is never from the dad

[indu @gopal_indu]

@NuBharat_ @JustPunforfun @Anupama_Dalmia It is allowed - the act as a clause states that cultural practices are an exception

[indu @gopal_indu]

@Pratyus1305v @ResurrectedFeed Duashera and Diwali celebrated on varying scales are pan Indian - Holi and Raksha Bandhan are not pan Indian

[indu @gopal_indu]

@MitaMurthy @cbkwgl Not if you are from malabar

[indu @gopal_indu]

@ArkeshModi @DhruvRatheNx Almost all schools -

[indu @gopal_indu]

@PositiveGamma They are the most pessimistic group -

[indu @gopal_indu]

@ravihanda Nope depends on parents financial status - if your parents have enough liquid assets and a regular cash flow - do not disturb the real estate - let them be there - doesn’t hurt a soul

[indu @gopal_indu]

@rach_aha Happy birthday Rachna

[indu @gopal_indu]

@HPCL this is the condition of your ladies washroom in pumps of mumbai - it’s locked and no one has the key

[indu @gopal_indu]

@Anubhav86833073 @TheSCSTOBCVoice Things are not black or white - read Devaki Nilayamcodes Antharjanam - most nuanced take on the topic - written by a Nambudiri woman who grew up in the era of- we all grew up in the vestiges of these stories

[indu @gopal_indu]

@Anubhav86833073 @TheSCSTOBCVoice It was matrilineal not matriarchal - the power was the the eldest “ mama” who made all decisions - women had more power as in inheritance rights - the turmoil when society changed in 1900s-50s bought in lots of heart burns

[indu @gopal_indu]

@Anubhav86833073 @TheSCSTOBCVoice That was the practice till it was stopped - only the eldest son could marry within the community - other sons did “ sambandham”

[indu @gopal_indu]

@saurav_surve @Schandillia And why did that become abysmal ?

[indu @gopal_indu]

@the_psyche_lab @valarr_dohaeris Nope - I wish - I had my daughter in one of the poshest hospital in one of India’s biggest Metro - the Malayalee nurses there told us that even now for many business communities the bias and joy at birth of sons was something different