ini sangat amaaaat benaaar!!! kurangin screen time and go touch some grass 😭 olahraga, baca buku, introspeksi, ibadah sunnah, ngaji, journaling, or just have some simple fun like play games, ride your bike keliling komplek, whatever gets you off the screen for a while.
because when you spend too much time online, your brain starts living in other people’s narratives. you overconsume, compare, react, and somehow everything feels like a problem. insya Allah, the more you actually live your own life, the less your socmed becomes a dumping ground for complaints. at some point, you’ll have stories, growth, and reflections to share, not just things to rant about.
aku jarang bgt ngelarang pasanganku. bukan karna aku ga peduli atau ga cemburu. i mean, every girl has that feeling sometimes. tapi aku lebih pengen liat dia punya self-awareness buat jaga perasaanku tanpa aku harus bilang atau larang. can he respect our relationship on his own? sejauh mana dia bener-bener values what we have, even tanpa aku larang sekalipun.
gua benci bgt kalo cowo udh gak interest dia gak bilang, dia cuma jadi jauh dan super “sibuk” trs pelan pelan narik diri sampe lo yg pergi duluan, kaya UDAHIN AJA LO PENGECUT (trauma lol)
tadi dengar bapak bapak bilang "untuk semua orang orang di desa, jangan pergi belanja ke kopdes merah putih, belanja aja ke warung depan rumah. emangnya kalau kalian lagi susah siapa yang lebih dulu tolong kalian? tetangga atau negara?"
yeay antistatisme semakin relevan 🤭