you are a cis woman fetishizing gay relationships, which is very harmful to gay people. most yaoi depicts harmful relationships and even r*pe. it normalizes it and makes it seem sexy or cute. when a gay person tells you to stop fetishizing gay people, listen.
"let's not talk about this harmful problem but instead talk about this harmful problem" is such a weak argument when you are trying to argue with a gay man about fetishizing gay men.
Can we talk about the fact old guys sexualize teens and young girls instead of this whole fujoshi talk? Because that alone is what's going on today. People don't talk about "fujoshies" on the news because it's not a big issue like pedophilia and old guys attacking young boys.
@standardfujoshi since you blocked me on main, I want to say this really quick. mlm / gay men are sick as SHIT of having people like you fetishize our relationships. we're done.