bia 🐈‍⬛

little wave stan. bi. she/her.

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

only thing i disagree is they like being providers bc these days men can't even do this one thing right and get annoyed they need to pay for their gf's skin care or hair care... but yeah acting like women are USING men for casual sex which is exactly what they love is so lame 😭

[day @paradoxhers]

hurting men's feelings by treating them as providers (which they love) AND having sex with them (which they also love)

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@paradoxhers @trixzxzx these people really think just because the woman enjoys the sex that they are above the men or opressing/using them somehow, it's so embarrassing

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@cogito_yuri @CallitWhatU12 @CathyWriter24 love how some of these people say all that and prove nothing at all because they never done some nasty good tribbing

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@CallitWhatU12 this is still a woman and a man and a straight relationship queer ppl aren't obliged to enjoy.

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@AilenAlienR imagine wanting to straight up showcase you have 0 game with women and are chronically unable to get some freaky pussy on pussy action 😭 loser

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@MaXFactor1113 dying at YOUR 0 literacy skills, as again, i fuck men and DON'T need MY perspective framed in media to feel understood and seen 😭 i'm the one ok with diff perspectives and YOU are the one actually struggling a LOT to see yourself as queer if your experiences aren't in the media

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@crownedroi where are the actual studies cementing the numbers on this and are the bi men that get interviewed for that a part of opposite or same gender relationships? if you have links i'd love to read the research method

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@devareauxvzn WHO is denying any of this mama 😭 also it's funny to say this to me, a bissexual gal with obvious and loud gender leaning preference, i think you are getting too defensive and parasocial over a stranger which is the actual skill issue here

[Vyx 󠀀 ꕤ @cumflairr]

why are we acting like m/f relationships are integral to every bisexual’s experience

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

the fact you think a bissexual person prioritizing same gender relationships means they tryna get picked tells enough about how YOU center straight relationships and think you are gonna get picked for it lmao

[luca/sparrow 🇵🇸 ♡ left arcadia @crownedroi]

that's literally not what anyone is saying but anything to get picked ig

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

a bi person ending in a same gender rs (which is actually not as high likely irl esp when some of us live at intolerant countries and closeted their whole lives) which we know they get more vitriol and experience more repression over, is bad because...? please, elaborate.

[angel ♡ @seiyasfemme]

indeed it is only one type of bisexual rep that's universally well-received

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

he is talking about himself 😭 as a bi MAN. this is why it matters to learn how to read and understand gender dynamics apply differently because of course a bi MAN in a straight relationship is safer from outside abuse and vitriol that a same gender rs with other man would evoke.

[luca/sparrow 🇵🇸 ♡ left arcadia @crownedroi]

and this is why its important to learn about all aspects of biphobia including bimisogyny because this only *kind of* works one way. for bi women, being with men usually just means the chances of abuse skyrocket. so priveledged, right?

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

no i wouldn't, thanks for asking

[‎⧗ Art of Paige ‎➳ @Paiges_of_Art]

this. my whole thing is…yall are some incurious mfs. bridgerton isn’t the greatest thing ever, far from it, but if you actually cared about something as important as sapphic rep in period pieces that don’t end in tragedy, wouldn’t you want to appreciate the full context?

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

miss taylor dearden paid the bots for this

[donny ੈ✩‧₊˚ @camcmrns]

32. Langdon and Mel - 13,124

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

i've plainly accepted bisexuals exist as i'm one but seeing Ten as one is what's hard lmao

[leelo ☽☾ TEXAS TOAST @devareauxvzn]

I feel like if yall accepted the fact that bisexuals exist you wouldn’t feel so shocked everytime Ten sung about a woman lol

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@nerdnerys just because he is a cheater doesn't mean he is invalid as the bissexual kind of character op was describing :///

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

saying all that and not knowing iwtv? saying that "we FINALLY have a bisexual character thats undeniably bisexual" as if lestat is not enough?

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@coegumi @amaizhanlu fighting that hard for the rights of women and men being more than just friends... all because you can't see how a special soulbound dynamic between boy/girl is perfectly acceptable as just platonic... i wonder WHO else is doing this 🤣 you are no different than narusaku fellas

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

@amaizhanlu you don't need to ship ichihime (which i don't btw opposite from you i REALLY dgaf for heteros) to just 1) accept they are the endgame planned by the author and 2) to acknowledge ichiruki are just very good friends, you just ain't used to seeing women and men like this honey ❤️

[bia 🐈‍⬛ @gothromances]

other sexualities? did you know there are bi ppl who dgaf about straight relationships or romance between men and women? as a bi woman i WILL read another book bc i'm not interested on wasting my time with dynamics i'm not invested. that's why there's the need to proper label

[sage @markingofdesire]

bisexuals are one of the on communities forced to consider the feelings of other sexualities when we want to write bisexual stories ABOUT bisexuals FOR bisexuals. i couldn’t care less about your aversion to men, read another book 🤷🏾‍♀️