being used for intimacy is a very real thing. it happens in friendships a lot, but also relationships. I’m talking about people who use others as free therapists to offload, but then withdraw, ignore or get irritable when their ‘free therapists’ want to talk about how they feel.
Right now life is teaching me the law of detachment. ain’t nothing really yours, you gotta be comfortable with not being attached, just enjoying life for what it is & moving on when it’s time.
Being in a toxic relationship can MAKE YOU toxic. & you don’t wanna accept it but you realize there’s so much shit you be tripping about and you don’t know why. It’s a relief to learn healthy habits Ain a new relationship. To be loved correctly, to grow with someone, & treated right.