Gregor Sammut-Paul

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@JasielCTH How much tequila? What alcohol content should the tequila be?

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@Ryan_Daigler I struggle with the enablers. Mum.m and siblings. The ones who should have plebes protectors.

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@MagnusLindbrg Sweet or white or either?

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@zeynepgsaray Can u use epson salts?

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@Bro_Code_x Yes

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@tarotdori 17

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@mcgillmedicines Congratulations! Thank goodness. What else did u do?

[Kon Karapanagiotidis @Kon__K]

If One Nation can raise $4.7 million in 10 days for hate and division, I believe we can raise $1.5 million tomorrow for love. Our World Refugee Day Telethon goes from 7am to 11pm. Let’s send a powerful national message tomorrow that we are stronger together ❤️

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@Emilyy20k I struggle more and feel more impacted by the enablers

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@MissB53 Unfortunately no in them

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@MissB53 No through the link on ur post

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@BillBottrell @Favwontmiss Fair call. U seem kind. Be kind to urself also.

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@BillBottrell @Favwontmiss It’s breaking the pattern which is the key? Biff seems a bit harsh. You deserve support.

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@BillBottrell @Favwontmiss So what’s the solution

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@MissB53 Thank u for your honesty. I am exactly where I’ve. U said it so eloquently. Thank u. Hope u r ok. Reach out if u need.

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@SamaHoole Do you eat sardines? Have you done a sardine fast? Would love your experience or perspective?

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@muheediva01 @Ryan_Daigler Why

[Gregor Sammut-Paul @gregormarty]

@Ryan_Daigler Your material and posts r so on point. Thank you they have helped me so much with accepting what I did and why. If you can speak to the enablers that support and normalise their behaviour would be beneficial. 🙏

[Skill of Life @skill_of_life]

Narcissistic people cannot be changed. Do not waste your time trying. Because they do not operate the way you think they do.

You are approaching them with logic. With evidence. With patience and well constructed arguments about how their behavior affects you. And none of it lands. Not because they do not understand. But because understanding was never the point for them. Their actions are not driven by logic. They are driven by pride. And pride does not negotiate.

Every conversation you have trying to reason with them becomes a threat to their self image. Every piece of feedback, no matter how carefully delivered, is received as an attack. Every boundary you set is interpreted as a challenge to their authority over you. You are not dealing with someone who wants to grow. You are dealing with someone who is entirely focused on protecting a version of themselves that cannot be questioned.

And here is what makes it exhausting. They are skilled. They know how to make you feel like the problem. They know how to reframe every conflict so that your legitimate concern becomes your character flaw. They know how to stay just reasonable enough to keep you engaged while never actually changing anything.

So you try harder. You explain more clearly. You adjust your approach. You give more chances. All while they remain exactly who they are, completely unmoved, because your effort was never going to change someone who does not believe they need to change.

Narcissistic people do not change because they do not think the problem is them. It will never be them. And the sooner you accept that, the sooner you stop spending your energy on someone who was never going to give you anything back for it.