These are not the same situation. Not even remotely and I genuinely don't understand why people keep conflating them as though they're interchangeable scenarios.
Grandma's last born is disabled, and she's still taking care of him. That's over 35 years of taking care of him. She's suffered enough.
It's you people who hasn't experienced it that is against aborting such suffering.
Everyone is on the internet rn like
“I knew my child was going to be sick and I chose to birth them, now they are non-verbal, have a feeding tube, wheelchair bound, in and out of the hospital since birth, 45 surgeries by age 5… but I’m happy with my decision, my child is happy”