If you want your relationship to last, you need to be willing to let go of people and situations who make your partner feel uncomfortable, and threaten your relationship. It's not about control, it's about showing RESPECT!
My uncle died from cancer last week. He worked for freedom mortgage and they denied him medical leave when the man was dying. All week they’ve been calling and fedexing him letters threatening his job because he didn’t show up to work BECAUSE HE WAS DEAD.